Ok, so surgery is Monday and I've finally got my head around OHS and now I have to make everyone else feel better. Family members crying more than I do, what's that about? They don't listen when I say I don't want them to see me in ICU cause " they just have to see my face and Kiss me". I am a very modest person to start with and I don't like the idea of people seeing me with all the tubes attached. ( I have to put on a robe to raid the fridge at 2am) It really bugs me that they don't hear me. Sorry to post such negativity but I guess I just needed to vent!