I have to say that I am saddened greatly that things are as they are now.....I too found it very slow around here and I guess with being busy with school I didn't keep up, nevertheless, I am heartbroken that there is now a rift where there was once friendship, compassion and a whole lot of laughter and has now turned to forced opinions, hurt feelings and separation. I too, had a falling out with a member and my feelings were hurt and badly because the person did not talk to me to get a full understanding before passing judgement on my circumstances. Yes, I am disabled, yes I am on SSDI and Medicare and Medicaid...but do I WANT to be on these things ABSOLUTELY NOT......I would give anything to be able to still work as I once did, and I am fighting to be able to go back to work at some point. My point here is that if Christina had come to me and asked me about why I am in the financial predicament that I am in, I would have told her and maybe she would have understood that I don't like where I am at instead of making the comment "Well Harrybaby, I guess this means you don't have to go back to the government and ask them for MORE MONEY do you.....I was hurt and crushed and this coming from someone who was born outside of the U.S. The bottom line here folks is that please please before passing judgement, go to the person...ask them whats up before automatically assuming the worst...I am still very upset because I didn't get the chance to resolve things with Christina before she passed away....we all have this one life to live..life is too short to be judging others before finding out the whole story. I am also now on both websites as I am friends with everyone even though there is this aweful rift......I am truly heartbroken that it has come to this.....
