Warning: Toxic morale ahead.
Is anyone else sick of being in the waiting room for an aneurysm or valve replacement? Does it seem like an exercise in futility to anyone else? I was calling it the "living room" for a while, but my tolerance is just too low for waiting for the big something or the big nothing to happen. Just the thoughts and the possibility of the cessation of the thoughts post fix make surgery seem worth it.
I have an aneurysm, I have chest pain daily/hourly, I just had a PE (3 actually) so I'm on coumadin anyway... I just want to get this crap over with. I'm so frustrated that I want to quit trying... but to quit trying is to quit living... which is completely not acceptable. At the same time, to care too much is more like dying all the time.
I just don't feel like its humane to let a person know they have a time bomb in their chest, and then tell them it's some kind of educated guess as to the safety and risk category. What kind of quality of life does a person have with a ticking time bomb permanently embedded in them? I'm just saying (and complaining), if only for that reason, I think we should accelerate the resection of aortas. I am exceptionally fatigued from the awareness of the disease.
To say one could get in a car accident tomorrow so why should anyone worry is completely bunk, because I could too. People somehow think it's good medicine to remind them they're healthy yet they could die too. What they're unaware of is that we have an equal chance of dying with an added 4-5% per year because of the aneurysm. And it's not just any death, either... it's an excruciatingly painful, nightmarish, helpless death where we might not even have enough time to tell a loved one we love them.
I literally go around telling people I love them now. I don't even care. They can think I'm fruity. I just don't want to be "that guy" that bites the dust and everyone felt like it was some kind of cosmic karma thing. I want people to know i really enjoyed their kinship/company.
So seriously, can the medical field please dramatically expedite advancements in the treatment of aortic disease?!?!?
Is anyone else sick of being in the waiting room for an aneurysm or valve replacement? Does it seem like an exercise in futility to anyone else? I was calling it the "living room" for a while, but my tolerance is just too low for waiting for the big something or the big nothing to happen. Just the thoughts and the possibility of the cessation of the thoughts post fix make surgery seem worth it.
I have an aneurysm, I have chest pain daily/hourly, I just had a PE (3 actually) so I'm on coumadin anyway... I just want to get this crap over with. I'm so frustrated that I want to quit trying... but to quit trying is to quit living... which is completely not acceptable. At the same time, to care too much is more like dying all the time.
I just don't feel like its humane to let a person know they have a time bomb in their chest, and then tell them it's some kind of educated guess as to the safety and risk category. What kind of quality of life does a person have with a ticking time bomb permanently embedded in them? I'm just saying (and complaining), if only for that reason, I think we should accelerate the resection of aortas. I am exceptionally fatigued from the awareness of the disease.
To say one could get in a car accident tomorrow so why should anyone worry is completely bunk, because I could too. People somehow think it's good medicine to remind them they're healthy yet they could die too. What they're unaware of is that we have an equal chance of dying with an added 4-5% per year because of the aneurysm. And it's not just any death, either... it's an excruciatingly painful, nightmarish, helpless death where we might not even have enough time to tell a loved one we love them.
I literally go around telling people I love them now. I don't even care. They can think I'm fruity. I just don't want to be "that guy" that bites the dust and everyone felt like it was some kind of cosmic karma thing. I want people to know i really enjoyed their kinship/company.
So seriously, can the medical field please dramatically expedite advancements in the treatment of aortic disease?!?!?