I agree with Lynlw....all the time. smiles
I agree with Lynlw....all the time. smiles
There is a book titled "How to Get Out of the Hospital Alive, A guide to Patient Power." that was written by a medical doctor. He tells of his experiences in hospitals and the problems had.
He recommends that people who are hospitalized who can not do for themselves have an advocate with them 24 hours a day.
When my husband had his first and second stroke, my son and I stayed with him every minute. And, we saw some of the most eggregious things happening around him with other patients. For example, I asked a nurse to check on a patient in a nearby room because he was on the floor. When nothing happened for more than an hour, I phoned the hospital and told the people that there was a man on the floor in room ###.
There was another time when a doctor whose fluency in English was a concern. His mannars were also in concern. He was telling Al about his concerns and they were all wrong. He was talking about people who had ampulations. My dear one has all his digets, toes, lungs, etc. This doctor told me to get out or he would call security....I beat him to it! Heaven only knows what he would have amputated had my son and I not been there.
I know that having people around after surgery is a pain in the BUTT! But it is also a blessing because they can't mess with you when you have people around you.
When any of us, or any of the people we love, or any of the people we know are hospitalized, there is a 24 hour a day watch on them. To be perfectly honest, when my dear one could not defend himself because of the strokes he had, I would have peed in my purse before I left him alone.
Blanche
Some "Things you Can Do to Get Out Of the Hospital Alive
.Make sure all your known allergies are clearly marked on your chart, wrist band, or a piece of paper taped to your bed.
.Mark the area of your body to be operated on with a felt tip pen
.Never eat or drink anything before surgery, even if the nurse brings you a food tray.
.Have a reliable Advocate with you as often as possible throughout your hospital stay.
Write your name prominently on a piece of paper and tape it to the wall above your bed. ( I wrote Al's Name on his chest with a magic marker more than once.)
HAVE A RELIABLE ADVOCATE WITH YOU AS OFTEN AS POSSIBLE THROUGHOUT YOUR MEDICAL STAY.....My Prince Charming was never, never alone even for a moment.
Always ask the nurse to check the name and dosage of any medication s/he is about to give you.
Don't let anyone bully you...That's where the advocate comes in. Once I had a doctor, who did not know his a from a hole in the ground deal with Al. Al's doctor was out of town. I tried to talk to him, but finally I gave up when he told me to leave the room. I called security and they asked him to leave the room!!!
Finally, the most important to my mind is, TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS.......
Al Capshaw was absolutely right when he said that a trusted person needs to be in the room with the patient....That's how you get out of the hospital alive.
Blanche