I'll keep you both in my thoughts. Sometimes having a medical background and knowing more things can be tougher, when it is a loved one. As Lily said 4-5 days seems to be about ave, if you don't have any complications. It may take and extra day or so if you are on coumadin and they are waiting to get your INR in range. Ask away, I'm sure questions will be popping into your head all the time now, I usually have most of mine in the middle of the night, so its nice to have a place like this that someone is usually online most of the time.
Do they normaly get you in so soon when they decide it is time there? I could see where that is good and bad, not as much time to worry, but a rush to get things ready ect.