Thanks for the replies! Consensus seems to be that it is time for at least a consult with a surgeon. Thanks for not making me feel like a hyperchondriac. I don't like the words "mild LV hypertrophy" and "suggest mildly impaired LV relaxation", though my own cardio seemed to think it was maybe worded a little too strongly. This fall was the first time the echo reports said anything like that--but it was a different tech and cardio doc reading it than usual. Before that, it was always the same doc reading it (mine), but a different tech each time.
Did everybody go to a local surgeon as a first surgical consult? Or did you go first to where you thought you'd probably want to actually have the surgery. I live close to 2 hospitals that do open heart surgeries, but I don't think they are really major centers, but I could be wrong. I'm not sure how good they REALLY are for valve surgery--especially for BAV, though I do not see anything in the echo report to imply any sign of aneurism, etc. I'm 4-5 hrs from Cleveland by car, so I might be interested in that direction, though the travel expense would be hard to budget for multiple trips and we'd have to fly home after any surgery, find somebody to stay with kids, pets, all the usual travel stuff. Thinking about all the extra stuff leads me to think maybe start with a local surgeon first. Summer sure sounds like a better idea than winter however, but maybe this summer is too soon. Ok, I'm thinking too much and maybe just need to concentrate on one thing at a time.
My next dr appt is in a month with the pcp so I will see if he will talk to the cardio again or just make the request.