wow our parents seemed immortal when we were kids,they were strong,they were dependable @source of wisdom,comfort and hope.Surely they will always be this way.
My parents are 84-86 and are going strong still independent and have decided ime to move and leave their home 8 hrs away from us.
Move closer,will fine a call came an apt in seniors tower ready for oct 9th,but their house isnot sold,could lock it up and leave for now but better to sell it of course.
The goal is to help my parents fullfil their needs not to take over their life,in no way do i wanna be their rescuer but at same time i feel guilty i cant make life perfect for them.
A decision they need to make as moving out of their home and leaving friends can be a wrenching decision.The oppourtunity of moving yet standing still.
Ironically they are not too worried and dad says what good does that do standing still just makes it less enjoyable.
well weve done what we can in their best interests and wants and i appreciate 2 value @ thank God for the time i have left with them @ took a
realistic look at how they are managing as they continue to age and made sure this move is best for them not me.
Seems for now we stand still and they want a miracle to happen in selling their home by Oct 9th so Wow it can happen i imagine,or they may decide to stay in their home but towers here say could take 3 years for another opening on the list.
They drove up to view options here and have been planning for this call for sometime by selling and sales of items in last year now.But it comes down to nitty gritty home so still looks optional.
Be it here or ten hours away they will be looked after either way,but all things aside i'd just luv to have them close,life is so precious.
when you have a minute in your prayers add my conflict to an anwer for oct 9th.....Thanks so much
My parents are 84-86 and are going strong still independent and have decided ime to move and leave their home 8 hrs away from us.
Move closer,will fine a call came an apt in seniors tower ready for oct 9th,but their house isnot sold,could lock it up and leave for now but better to sell it of course.
The goal is to help my parents fullfil their needs not to take over their life,in no way do i wanna be their rescuer but at same time i feel guilty i cant make life perfect for them.
A decision they need to make as moving out of their home and leaving friends can be a wrenching decision.The oppourtunity of moving yet standing still.
Ironically they are not too worried and dad says what good does that do standing still just makes it less enjoyable.
well weve done what we can in their best interests and wants and i appreciate 2 value @ thank God for the time i have left with them @ took a
realistic look at how they are managing as they continue to age and made sure this move is best for them not me.
Seems for now we stand still and they want a miracle to happen in selling their home by Oct 9th so Wow it can happen i imagine,or they may decide to stay in their home but towers here say could take 3 years for another opening on the list.
They drove up to view options here and have been planning for this call for sometime by selling and sales of items in last year now.But it comes down to nitty gritty home so still looks optional.
Be it here or ten hours away they will be looked after either way,but all things aside i'd just luv to have them close,life is so precious.
when you have a minute in your prayers add my conflict to an anwer for oct 9th.....Thanks so much
