Thank you all so much for your posts! Sorry I have taken so long to respond. I didn't realize there were so many unread ones!
My concentration was really off for several weeks and I had trouble relating to the computer at all.
I have made steady progress with no setbacks and I was officially discharged by the surgeon yesterday. I can drive.
I did have some pain issues, but my primary care doctor set me up with generic Ultram- a real godsend because Tylenol just was not cutting it. My surgeon said to expect the pain to be worse this time because he had to deal with a lot of adhesions and scar tissue and even remove some of the sternum.
(Hope that is not too graphic)
Even though all the professional colleagues such as the cath dr and the anesthesiologist kept talking about a repair, I prayed for a mechanical valve so I would never have to return to the knife. My surgeon agreed with me and found as he went in that the valve was too shredded to repair and the anesthsiologist had to agree. I barely made it in on time.
I had 3 things wrong with my heart when I first went under the knife in 2003. The surgeon in the first op only repaired the "subluminal filling defect" with a bypass. I came out of that with the valve untouched and the chronic a-fib ignored. This time, the surgeon changed the valve and did a modified Maze, so it is possible I will return to sinus rhythm in the next 6 months.
In any case my ankles are not puffy at all for the first time in years, so I can hardly wait till my next echo, because I think my heart is really working well, a-fib aside.
I have this forum and my vr friends to thank for my being so prepared. I hope many people find this forum beforehand and learn as much as I did. I can only be grateful for the purpose of this forum and so glad it was here.
I got set up with a service that supplies the strips for my meter and my insurance is paying for it, so I am also grateful for finding this information on resources over here too.
The best to you all. I will continue to visit. Perhaps I can chime in with something helpful now and then.