Wife has broken my heart

[rckrzy1]

After 24+ yrs my wife has stepped out and had an affair, said she hates me, won't try therapy ( I AM IN TWICE A WEEK ) to keep my sanity and as many of you know my sobriety of 15+ yrs.

So I'm heart broken and sad. Pray for me.

Adam

 

[Wise]

Will do. Sorry that you're having to go through this.

 

[Ross]

Sorry Adam. Sometimes, no matter what you do, things just won't work out. On the other hand, your still young enough that if you simply cannot get back together and make it work, you'll still be eligible to date. I know that's not what you want to hear, but trying to find a bright side to an otherwise difficult situation.

 

[Danny]

Sorry to hear that news Adam... I know its hard, but try to stay strong.

 

[Superbob]

Adam, hang in there, man. I hope and pray everything works out the best for you. I know it's tough right now.

 

[twinmaker]

You'll certainly be in my thoughts and prayers. LINDA

 

[Lily]

Wow, I'm very sorry to read this, Adam.

 

[marie]

I'll have you in my prayers that things work out for the best. Sorry that you're having to go through this.

 

[olefin]

Adam, I'm sorry to hear that my feelings for you.

Recently had something like that in our family but they were able to work things our and all's well now. So maybe things will turn for you.

 

[Duffey]

I'm sorry to read this, Adam.
It's good that you're going to therapy and that you're remaining strong in your fight to maintain sobriety. I'll pray that God gives you the strength to see this through.
Hang in there.

 

[Kathy McCain]

Adam,

I am truly sadden to hear of your situation! Please hang in there, and try to remain strong! You know better than anyone, that falling off the wagon right now, would be the VERY WORSE thing that you could do. Stay strong, and eventually your problems will resolve. You have a future, and a great life to look forward to, even though that's not what you are feeling right now!

 

[kfay]

Adam, I know you are hurting right now. I'm so sorry for your situation. I hope that you find the best outcome for you, whatever that may be.

Kim

 

[tobagotwo]

Adam, you're in my thoughts. This can be an awful low point.

You're deeply hurt. It doesn't seem so now, but at some not-too-distant point, you're suddenly going to realize that a part of you is feeling something different: relief. Even when the deceit was hidden from you, a part of you was responding to some underlying current of tension there that you couldn't see. That part of you is just waiting to escape from the angst and pain.

I wish you the best revenge: better love and a happier life down the road.

Be well,

 

[Star54]

You have my prayers. Stay strong and take each day at a time......remember life is precious, and take care of yourself.

 

[MaryC]

Adam,
Sorry to hear your unhappy news. I hope things work out for you...no matter what the outcome is.

Chris

 

[Rain]

Ouch.

Ouch.

So sorry to hear this, Adam.

Bob's (tobagotwo) post made a lot of sense.

Hugs & Prayers

 

[tex]

Hi Adam,
I am really sorry to hear your news, my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Take Care
Jane

 

[Cooker]

Prayers coming your way ... picking up won't solve a thing ... hang tough...

 

[catwoman]

Adam:

I'm so sorry that you're going through this.

Marital problems are tough enough without things like this.

You will find that you do have the inner strength to see yourself through this. Been there, done that -- at age 22.

 

[netmiff]

Hang in there, it's just like OHS, there is a good life on the other side of the mountain, this is just a different mountain. My thoughts are with you.

I went through something like this, I was only 24 years old, married for less than 5 years. It's tough, I know....but now at 54 I am married to my soul mate. That' s probably not much help to you right now . Grieve, be angry, go to therapy and get it out your system, then you will be able to move on.