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Nancy

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Well, there are some good things and some not so good things. Joe's CHF has been addressed, he had also developed Klebsiella pneumonia, and that is being addressed. He then had a heart attack which had caused some abnormalities in his heart for a while, but I don't see so many bad things today.

And now, the worst thing, is that his headache is actually a brain bleed. It is in the back of his head in a small area. It hasn't caused other really bad symptoms than the headache. They say that the bleeding area is small, but in a tight area and it has constricted the normal fluid drainage in the brain, so there is some pain and a little fluid swelling. Had a consult with the neurology surgeon today and he wants to wait and see how much of the bleeding will be absorbed and how much of the fluid will also get gone with extra Lasix.

The scary thing is that they have stopped all anticoagulation and have given him Vitamin K and plasma which as you all know will drop his INR like a rock. They want to maintain him around 1. All doctors have agreed that this is the only way, as risky as it is.

It's between a rock and a hard place.

I was encouraged by the way he responded to yesterday's drug regimen, and the IV Lasix. He was quite alert, made a few jokes with the doctors, and was able to talk a little.

Every doctor has said that there are no good choices with Joe's difficult set of problems, and I know this is true. So, just have to take each day at a time and celebrate the truimphs and work through the difficult things.

Everything at the hospital is hunky dory today, I am happy to report. All doctor specialists checked in and I spoke to them all, and the nurses were great. I didn't have to stamp my feet and just about jump up and down at all today :D
 
Nancy, we'll be saying lots and lots of prayers for Joe and your family. Sending all my best your way.
 
Nancy,
Last part first - glad that you managed to get the staff to understand you wouldn't put up with their crap - congratulations.
I am sorry to hear about the brain bleed. No matter how small, it still requires the ACT be altered which is indeed scary with Joe's history. Hopefully the bleed will stop soon and his ACT can be restarted.
I am praying real hard that things improve fast.
Take care and get some rest youself now that he is getting better care.
 
Nancy, thank-you for taking the time to update us. I appreciate the precarious position that Joe is in and please know that the two of you are never far from my thoughts. You are always in my prayers.
 
Joining all the others with heart-felt prayers for your fighter, Joe.
You are a remarkable woman, Nancy.
I am wearing your cap tonight for the first time if you know what I mean.
:eek: :) :eek: Debbi
 
Boy I can relate. They had to stop mine and plasma me in hopes of stopping my GI bleed and I have to say, I was on them constantly about my heart valve. As soon as they were convinced the bleeding had stopped and nothing was found, they fired up the Heparin drip and gave me my Coumadin back.
 
Nancy,
I thought that I recognized long ago what a remarkable woman you are, but then you post a reply that makes me realize that I still don't fully appreciate how extraordinary you are.
Yes, Joe is indeed between a rock and a hard place, but if anyone can stand fast and help him find his way out, it's you.
Joe's a real fighter, but I will ask God to bless you with extra strength for this latest battle.
 
Nancy,
Thanks for the update. My thoughts will be with you this night.
Barbara
 
Nancy I have been checking on posts regarding Joe many times a day. I hope tonight finds him better. He has been through so much and having you there being his champion is wonderful. I did read with interest his headaches and it took me right back to the brain bleed I had. That headache was the most horrible pain. I had the bleed two weeks before I had to go in. The bleed did cause a stroke. It is a tricky thing to deal with and it takes time, time, time. Mine did absorb after a point. I was off work for three months since the dull ache continued for a long time. It is a fine line to balance on the coumadin and the bleed. Joe is in my thoughts and prayers daily.
Kathleen
 
Be sure to tell Joe that SO MANY people care about him and are wishing him through this tough period!!
 
Nancy, Please Know That

Nancy, Please Know That

My thoughts and prayers are with you and Joe, even though I haven't been on much due to health issues, and dealing with my depression, I have been poking in from time to time and checking in....I want you to know that I am thinking of you and praying hard that Joe comes through this mess with flying colors, and I will be stepping up the prayers. Hugs coming your way from ole' Harrybaby:D :D :D :D
 
Nancy, Thanks for taking the time to update and I never doubted for a minute that you would whip those doctors and nurses into shape- bravo! Our prayers are with you and Joe and I hope you can manage some sleep tonight, knowing that they are taking good care of him. He is so lucky to have you and I pray for your continued strength and Joe's recovery.
 
Dear Nancy:

How very thoughtful of you to let us know how the day went. That is bad news about the bleed, but it sounds like they are doing the best they can.

You and Joe will be in our prayers, as always. May God grant you strength.

Marybeth
 
Nancy:

Thanks for keeping us posted. The prayers are continuing.
Hope you have family with you right now. Sometimes family can be overwhelming, but there are times when having family (or very close friends) can be comforting.

Like others have said, you are a remarkable woman!
 
OH, Nancy..............

OH, Nancy..............

(((hugs))) Thank you for taking the time to update us, as you know we are worried. I am so relieved to hear that the staff members were much more on top of things today and you were able to find out what is going on with Joe. But, I am not at all thrilled with his being taken off of his anticoagulation. I realize there is not much choice, but I think we will all be breathing a sigh of relief when Joe is back on his ACT. Please know - and I'm sure you do - that we are here for you and that there are many, many prayers being said on y'all's behalf. Many hugs. J.
 

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