anutherbuddy
Active member
I have been skimming VR.org articles and forums for a long time and have found much comfort and support here. When waves of panic start to set in, this is where I can always go for help. My husband has been in the waiting room for nearly 10 years and now, finally, has been given a date (Sep 12) for OHS to replace both MV and AV. He's 64 and has elected to go with porcine parts. When the aortic aneurysm was first diagnosed the cardiologist said "you're the first person I've ever seen alive with this!" (it was at a training hospital - what can I say?) and for 10 years I feel like I've watched him like he was a time bomb - was he about to explode? He's not one to study and search on the internet so I've been doing most of the research. He's remained asymptomatic throughout, which is great - it's just hard to think about him feeling so lousy after the surgery when he feels perfectly fine beforehand. I checked out the "significant others" site but there has been no action there for over a month - I'd love to hear from others who have had to wait and watch. Thanks again for all the help and suggestions.