heyrebekah
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I was all set to go ahead and have surgery. I talked to 2 surgeons who agreed that it is time. One of those surgeons said that surgery is not immediately necessary, but since I would like to get pregnant I should have surgery now to avoid my aneurysm growing any larger and dissecting during pregnancy. The second surgeon said that I definitely need surgery now, even if pregnancy was out of the equation, just because of the combination of bicuspid valve and aneurysm. So based on that, I was all set to have my surgery on 4/28.
But then this week I went to another hospital for a second opinion. The first two surgeons were so definite about needing surgery, that I just went ahead and scheduled it, figuring I would probably hear the same thing from another surgeon. But I wanted another opinion anyway, just to sort of confirm what I decided.
But! I talked to a new cardiologist and surgeon the last 2 days and both of them were rather shocked that I was told not to get pregnant and said there is absolutely no need for surgery at this point. They said I should go ahead and pursue pregnancy and just be very closely monitored. But after a year of being told how dangerous it would be, I'm not sure I could do that. At least not without freaking out every single day, you know? I already had one miscarriage (completely unrelated) and if I get pregnant again I want it to be as low-risk as possible, as much as I can control. I kind of want to just get the surgery done and over with and move on with my life.
I'm going to try to talk to the first surgeon tomorrow and see what he has to say about the conflicting opinions. I'm just so confused. I've been going back and forth about it for the last 2 days.
But then this week I went to another hospital for a second opinion. The first two surgeons were so definite about needing surgery, that I just went ahead and scheduled it, figuring I would probably hear the same thing from another surgeon. But I wanted another opinion anyway, just to sort of confirm what I decided.
But! I talked to a new cardiologist and surgeon the last 2 days and both of them were rather shocked that I was told not to get pregnant and said there is absolutely no need for surgery at this point. They said I should go ahead and pursue pregnancy and just be very closely monitored. But after a year of being told how dangerous it would be, I'm not sure I could do that. At least not without freaking out every single day, you know? I already had one miscarriage (completely unrelated) and if I get pregnant again I want it to be as low-risk as possible, as much as I can control. I kind of want to just get the surgery done and over with and move on with my life.
I'm going to try to talk to the first surgeon tomorrow and see what he has to say about the conflicting opinions. I'm just so confused. I've been going back and forth about it for the last 2 days.