Hi Dlraff, congrats on making it to this side of the operating table, even if it took them two tries. Mine wasn't a right Thorc. I got the whole stem to stern midline. This was my 4th and as my hubby likes to put it, they just followed the dotted line. Since you titled the thread any gals.... I thought you might be looking for some advice for those of us more endowed than the guys on the forum. We do have some different pain issues than our flat chested brothers. My incision and muscles pain lasted well into the 4th month postop. It's only really been this last week or so that I've noticed a significant change in the muscle pulling feeling. Part of the problem was the weight of my assets pulling on strained muscles. For the first several weeks postop, I found it VERY helpful to wear the surgical bras I got from the hospital. Even wearing them at night. If you didn't get any or didn't keep them, any of those soft bras they sell at Walmart now a days will work. Just something to give some support and take the weight off those muscles as it were. The soft bras should be ok along that scar, maybe place a couple gauze pads on top to give a little cushioning. At night, I would place pillows along my sides to sort of bluster my breasts so the weight of them flopping to the sides wouldn't pull on the incision. You might try a modified version to accommodate the side scar but still relieve pressure.
I also noticed a HUGE improvement when I switched off narcotics to the NSAID (Voltaren) that I take for my plantar Facitis pain. The anti-inflammatory in that really helped my chest. I have a mechanical valve, so am on Warfarin. I consulted with my Coumadin clinic about needing to start my Voltaren for my foot back up once my Coumadin got fairly stable. They weren't too happy about it but understood it's the only thing that works for my foot and agreed to work with the two meds and me. We just adjust the Coumadin accordingly to make sure my levels don't get too high.
I hope these hints help and that you're feeling better soon. Hang in there! You'll notice huge improvements each week but it does take a while. Best of luck! Linda