Hi, Nik!
Hi, Nik!
Congratulations on the birth of your son!! Welcome to the group, but I am so sorry you have to be here. I know firsthand the state of shock that you are existing in right now. You are stuck between the shock stage and the grieving stage. Hang in there. It does get better. Don't get me wrong. There are still days when I sit around and look at my Katie and get really angry and depressed over what she has had to go through and what she will have to continue to deal with the rest of her life. But there will come a time when your lives are almost normal. During those first few years, I would not have been able to convince myself of that...........but there will come that time for you guys, too. THe first few years are the worst. All timelines given by your doctors are rough guesstimates based on past cases. Your son will call the shots. Surgery will depend on how fast he is growing and how quickly he is outgrowing the shunt, and whether or not his VSD starts closing. (Katie's first surgery was the BT shunt as well; we made it twelve months.) You will not be able to plan things long term as you know there is a surgery looming in your future. THat will get better, I promise you.
Katie has now had five surgeries. We were supposed to have three, culminating with the fontan by the time she was three. So much for that gameplan. This is what I meant by speculation on the doctor's part. Katie had the BT shunt at two weeks of age; the bilateral bidirectional glenn at 12 months; her common AV valve (mitral and tricuspid are merged as one) repaired at 3 (this was a surgery that was not in the original gameplan, but doodoo happens
); and her fourth and fifth surgeries- the EC fontan and valve repair, then mechanical replacement (another surprise surgery) when her blood pressure bottomed out - were this past summer. In fact, one year ago today we were still camped out in the PCTU in Ann Arbor, Michigan. Today, life is good! WE know that Katie will never be completely through with surgeries, and she may have to be listed for transplant one day, but for now, we are through with surgery, and for that we thank God and the good folks here who have supported us, both morally and spiritually.
Why am I boring you with all of this?
To give you hope. Try not to despair over your son's future. With today's medical advancements, he does have one..........and that's what's important. Things will get better.
Now to your questions:
Yes, very young children do get mechanical valves. We have a few on here. Katie was four when she got hers. Chloe was 1, I believe. (Hopefully, Emma will be along soon to square me away.) Amelia is just an infant. And Caleb is five. Dunno when Matt first had his mechanical valves implanted.........maybe Jeanne will happen along soon, too. They are all mitral or mitral type valves, I believe. For some reason, it is very unusual for surgeons to implant mechanical pulmonary valves in the very young. I do know several parents whose kids have had their pulmonary valves replaced, but they have all been homograft. Maybe someone like Tobagatwo will come along and help us to muddle through this one as to why. I suspect it is because the pulmonary valve is not working under as much pressure as the mitral valve, so the homograft valve will last longer. I dunno. Katie has pulmonary stenosis, but due to her other numerous defects and her palliative surgeries, this is a moot issue at this point.
What are your son's oxygen sats? I presume that when they implant the pulmonary valve that they will take down the BT shunt and close his VSD???
The one down side to young kids being on coumadin (besides the obvious - they are kids and a kid's main mission in life is to try and perform as many daredevil feats as possible) is that it interferes with calcium absorption and Vitamin K - and both are necessary for the formation of bones and teeth. When the very young are placed on a coumadin regimine, no one can say for sure what long term effect this is going to have on their bones and teeth. Those of us with young kids on coumadin are breaking new ground.
Again, I do have some friends who have had their kids pulmonary valves replaced with homografts and
most have managed to get 7-8 years out of them. If your son's would last that long, they will probably be doing them routinely by cath by that time.
Okay, I have rattled on long enough for one night. Try not to despair. Try and focus on how lucky you are to have a son and that he was born in this day and age of medical technology. Please feel free to ask any questions or to vent. Many hugs. Janet and Katie P.S. By the way, Katie, despite having been through five heart surgeries, is a little spitfire. She is sharp as a whip and is a bundle of energy. J.