EireCara
Well-known member
HI Everyone, Well I had my long awaited cardio app yesterday. As soon as I arrived I was told that Dr.Foley was not there as he had a family bereavement.
I was seen by a young doc who looked about 20yrs old but was probably about 25. He had a very ''loud and busy'' way about him. I felt like telling him I was there with a heart problem not my hearing.
Anyway, it was all down hill from the moment we met. After saying ''hello'' he preceded to read my file (he had never seen me before) and after about 5 minutes he said have you ever taken amiodarone. I said yes but had to stop it due to side effects, so he said we will try you on flecadine (sp) it is good for a.fib and see how you go !!!! I said, I would like a moment to explain 'how unwell Im feeling'' and he said ''yea well the a.fib is probably responsible for that''. I said could the leaking MV and TV not have something to do with it. He said most people have MODERATE tricuspid leakage and are just fine, and a moderately leaking or floppy MV should not be causing me to feel so unwell.
I said ''what about the high pressures in the right side of my heart, they would not allow me to do a stress test due to it in my local hospital....to which he replied..., Ah, they are not that high yet. I said, I also have this pain in my upper abdomen which is getting worse lately and he said ''I dont know what that could be''. He also said even though I have a.fib and valve problems that there is absolutely no need for me to take warfarin, and he would discuss this with DR.Foley......
That was it....My spirit crashed to the floor and I couldnt speak another word.
He said he couldnt write a prescription for me as he would have to check it out with DR.Foley first but he wouldnt see him until next week sometime and would phone me as to whether I will be starting on flecadine (sp) or not.And everything about his presence said....''now go'' Im finished with you.
I just nodded and said goodbye as I left the room. My mind was sobbing cryng, inside. I had to wait over 4 hours for my lift home and I sat in a daze in a different outpatients waiting area where I just blended in with about 30 people, but I felt more alone than ever.
Im soo sorry for constantly having bad news when I come on here, I wish I could write a post which says something positive but I cant.
Im absolutely devistated. Today, I would be happy to end it all, but for now, my children need me.
I was seen by a young doc who looked about 20yrs old but was probably about 25. He had a very ''loud and busy'' way about him. I felt like telling him I was there with a heart problem not my hearing.
Anyway, it was all down hill from the moment we met. After saying ''hello'' he preceded to read my file (he had never seen me before) and after about 5 minutes he said have you ever taken amiodarone. I said yes but had to stop it due to side effects, so he said we will try you on flecadine (sp) it is good for a.fib and see how you go !!!! I said, I would like a moment to explain 'how unwell Im feeling'' and he said ''yea well the a.fib is probably responsible for that''. I said could the leaking MV and TV not have something to do with it. He said most people have MODERATE tricuspid leakage and are just fine, and a moderately leaking or floppy MV should not be causing me to feel so unwell.
I said ''what about the high pressures in the right side of my heart, they would not allow me to do a stress test due to it in my local hospital....to which he replied..., Ah, they are not that high yet. I said, I also have this pain in my upper abdomen which is getting worse lately and he said ''I dont know what that could be''. He also said even though I have a.fib and valve problems that there is absolutely no need for me to take warfarin, and he would discuss this with DR.Foley......
That was it....My spirit crashed to the floor and I couldnt speak another word.
He said he couldnt write a prescription for me as he would have to check it out with DR.Foley first but he wouldnt see him until next week sometime and would phone me as to whether I will be starting on flecadine (sp) or not.And everything about his presence said....''now go'' Im finished with you.
I just nodded and said goodbye as I left the room. My mind was sobbing cryng, inside. I had to wait over 4 hours for my lift home and I sat in a daze in a different outpatients waiting area where I just blended in with about 30 people, but I felt more alone than ever.
Im soo sorry for constantly having bad news when I come on here, I wish I could write a post which says something positive but I cant.
Im absolutely devistated. Today, I would be happy to end it all, but for now, my children need me.