Wow, these replies are so great to read!!! Good thread, Bon.
Tyce and I just celebrated 38 in August. When I think back to that day, I remember VERY well how much I DIDN'T want to get married......basically because I was scared, and partly because I wanted to be the "swinging single" with my own apartment, etc......Actually, the night before the wedding I gave him his ring back and told him I couldn't marry him......
Well, he wouldn't take "NO" for an answer.....we got married the next day. I cried hysterically all the way from the procession through the vows....so badly that I couldn't even repeat them, had mascara all the way down the front of my dress, and. well, suffice it to say, it wasn't pretty. We've been happily married ever since. He's my rock, my strength, and allows me to be me.
It was the best decision I ever made.....well, he ever made!!!
Evelyn