Even Hank has a comment for DASMom!
Even Hank has a comment for DASMom!
Hello DASMom,
First of all, the act of bringing children into this world is in my opinion the single greatest purpose for us being on this planet. It is admirable for you to want your surgical process such that it allows you to have children in the future.
I cannot even imagine how difficult such a decision would be. I, being male, did not have to make such a decision. You women do all the hard jobs and for that we are grateful. (at least I am).
The thought of having surgery again makes my bones shudder and my sternum throb with pain
However, I believe if I were in your position, I would have tissue valve replacement with whatever tissue valve offers the most longevity. Science is progressing rapidly and there is always a chance that a process will be inplace to keep that valve going forever.
And last but not least, If I had to have open heart surgery in order to have each and every child of mine, then I would have GLADLY had four surgeries already. And I would also have the surgery again if it was required to have another child.
I don't know if I am making any sense, but to make a short story long, I believe childbirth is the single thing that would make a tissue valve the best choice for you.
Only my humble opinion to hopefully aid you in your difficult decision making process