karit
New member
I am less than 2 weeks away from having AVR. I was told I should start planning a time for it about 6 months ago, and I've been checking out this site pretty regularly since then. It has been very helpful, thank you! It's been a tough 6 months because I'm 36 and exercise 5-6 days a week. The week before I was told to stop exercising, I ran 10 miles to train for my first half marathon. It was really discouraging to watch my running friends run the half marathon and start training for another without me. Just sitting around waiting and planning has been extremely difficult on my psyche, so I am anxious to finally be done with it and move on! Sounds like I will be able to start running again relatively soon, true? But while that has been tough, the hardest part about this whole thing is I am a stay-at-home mom to 3 young kids (10, 7, 4). They know I have to get my heart fixed someday, but I haven't told them that the someday is now. My question is - how do you talk to your kids about surgery? I don't want to be emotional and I don't want them to be scared, but I really just want to give them great big hugs!! How have you guys talked to your kids about this? And what is recovery going to be like with my little ones? Thanks again for your help.