Hi Gail and welcome, sorry for the circumstances.
Give "Jim" a couple days - time to think. Then hand him some tough love, but don't forget to ask "why' he feels that he doesn't want the surgery.
Tough love and a sympathetic ear just might work.
Good Luck and lets know how you are doing and what "Jim" says.
Give "Jim" a couple days - time to think. Then hand him some tough love, but don't forget to ask "why' he feels that he doesn't want the surgery.
Tough love and a sympathetic ear just might work.
Good Luck and lets know how you are doing and what "Jim" says.