della_anne
Well-known member
Hello,
I am on an anti depressant (wellbutrin)to treat social anxiety. I worry too much and I think part of it has to do with my heart condition. The psychiatrist says I need to go out and have fun. Its like I'm afraid to live, like living is going to kill me or something.
I have a tendancy to hold myself back and try not to let myself be too 'off guard'. Its like I have to be in control of my life and to go out and have fun is like loosing control. I don't get it....why am I so uptight and so unrelaxed? I am afraid to be myself around other people. Living with my parents probably has something to do with it too. I'm hypervigilant. I need to be at a calming state of being, then maybe it would be easier for me to meet new people and make more friends. The anti depressant is working, it has taken away a lot of the anxiety, alot but not all of it.
The psychiatrist wanted to put me on Paxil too to try to get rid of more of the anxiety. I decided not to go on Paxil...I was afraid it would make me too fearless and make me do something irrational or stupid. Some amount of anxiety is a good thing, it keeps you from getting harmed.
I try to get out among people and socialize as often as I can, I just hope that if I continue to do this, the anxiety will go away even more and maybe then I will be able to relax. Sometimes it is difficult though...I tend to be on the shy side, but I keep trying.
Anxiety can be such an isolating condition to have. Your first reation is to avoid people at all costs, but what you really need to be doing is to be around people as much as you can even though it may feel uncomfortable. Being around people can help to reduce the anxiety.
Thinking about maybe seeing a therapist again if things don't keep improving.
Does anyone else here experience anxiety? and do you know the reasons for it? How does your heart condition play into this?
Danielle
I am on an anti depressant (wellbutrin)to treat social anxiety. I worry too much and I think part of it has to do with my heart condition. The psychiatrist says I need to go out and have fun. Its like I'm afraid to live, like living is going to kill me or something.
I have a tendancy to hold myself back and try not to let myself be too 'off guard'. Its like I have to be in control of my life and to go out and have fun is like loosing control. I don't get it....why am I so uptight and so unrelaxed? I am afraid to be myself around other people. Living with my parents probably has something to do with it too. I'm hypervigilant. I need to be at a calming state of being, then maybe it would be easier for me to meet new people and make more friends. The anti depressant is working, it has taken away a lot of the anxiety, alot but not all of it.
The psychiatrist wanted to put me on Paxil too to try to get rid of more of the anxiety. I decided not to go on Paxil...I was afraid it would make me too fearless and make me do something irrational or stupid. Some amount of anxiety is a good thing, it keeps you from getting harmed.
I try to get out among people and socialize as often as I can, I just hope that if I continue to do this, the anxiety will go away even more and maybe then I will be able to relax. Sometimes it is difficult though...I tend to be on the shy side, but I keep trying.
Anxiety can be such an isolating condition to have. Your first reation is to avoid people at all costs, but what you really need to be doing is to be around people as much as you can even though it may feel uncomfortable. Being around people can help to reduce the anxiety.
Thinking about maybe seeing a therapist again if things don't keep improving.
Does anyone else here experience anxiety? and do you know the reasons for it? How does your heart condition play into this?
Danielle