How to explain city & state concepts to 4 yr old

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lcwhitney

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Do any of you experienced parents have a suggestion for explainingthe concept of city names and locations? I had never thought about how a small child sees things until my baby brother said something about watching CSI MIAMI when his 4 yr old said" No daddy not yourCSI MIAMI it is AUNT Titia's CSI MIAMI YOUR CS AMI.When he asked her David Caruso's character 's name she said "Amme " She thinks I am saying "CSI my Amme:confused:Please help she has started getting mad at everyone who says this name???

Lettitia
 
Best thing to do is hall out a map of Florida and show her Miami on the map, then tell her or remind her of CSI Las Vegas and hall out a map of Nevada and show her where it is on that. She's pretty young, but I think she'll pick up on it quickly. Also tell her to watch the tv when they show the cast names or even google or go to this link:

http://tinyurl.com/cfy4oc

And show her that David Carruso's show name is Horatio Cain and to note the shows name. ;) Kind of connect the dots for her to develop her understanding.
 
she will figure it out eventually. My dad married my mother, took her from Miami to Georgia. when my cousins came along some yrs later, they thought Miami (for my mother) was 'your ami' for a long time. Until they figured it out.

I think that is sooo funny Letitia.
 
I repeated to my 6 and now 4 year old boys our address and phone number. I would use word ass. with them. Grandma lives in CT. We live in NC. Everyday I will ask them what is our address, city, state. My older son would get the city and state mixed up.He would say NC for the town and Reidsville for the state. Then I would pick a word that is funny to him and say that Reidsville is the city where superman lives and Nc is the state where spider man lives. He finally got it. I hope that works. Repeat it everyday and make it fun.
 
Pull out a map, but this might not even make sense because to a 4-year-old it is dots and lines.

While you're teaching Miami, you might want to teach Mianus, CT too! Wouldn't want her getting that one confused!
 
It is quite possible that a 4 year old cannot really understand. You can get them to parrot the information, but true understanding may not come until the next intellectual developmental stage.

Jean Piaget... from Wikipedia

The stages of cognitive development
Piaget's 'Four levels of development' are (1) infancy, (2) preschool, (3) childhood, and (4) adolescence. Each stage is characterized by a general cognitive structure that affects all of the child's thinking (a structuralist view influenced by philosopher Immanuel Kant)[citation needed]. Each stage represents the child's understanding of reality during that period, and each but the last is an inadequate approximation of reality. Development from one stage to the next is thus caused by the accumulation of errors in the child's understanding of the environment; this accumulation eventually causes such a degree of cognitive disequilibrium that thought structures require reorganizing.
The four development stages are described in Piaget's theory as:
Sensorimotor stage: from birth to age 2. Children experience the world through movement and senses (use five senses to explore the world). During the sensorimotor stage children are extremely egocentric, meaning they cannot perceive the world from others viewpoints and explore using senses. The sensorimotor stage is divided into six substages: "(1) simple reflexes; (2) first habits and primary circular reactions; (3) secondary circular reactions; (4) coordination of secondary circular reactions; (5) tertiary circular reactions, novelty, and curiosity; and (6) internalization of schemes." [3] Simple reflexes is from birth to 1 month old. At this time infants use reflexes such as rooting and sucking. First habits and primary circular reactions is from 1 month to 4 months old. During this time infants learn to coordinate sensation and two types of scheme (habit and circular reactions). A primary circular reaction is when the infant tries to reproduce an event that happened by accident (ex: sucking thumb). The third stage, secondary circular reactions, occurs when the infant is 4 to 8 months old. At this time they become aware of things beyond their own body; they are more object oriented. At this time they might accidentally shake a rattle and continue to do it for sake of satisfaction. Coordination of secondary circular reactions is from 8 months to 12 months old. During this stage they can do things intentionally. They can now combine and recombine schemes and try to reach a goal (ex: use a stick to reach something). They also understand object permanence during this stage. That is, they understand that objects continue to exist even when they can't see them. The fifth stage occurs from 12 months old to 18 months old. During this stage infants explore new possibilities of objects; they try different things to get different results. During the last stage they are 18 to 24 months old. During this stage they shift to symbolic thinking. [3]
Preoperational stage: from ages 2 to 5 (magical thinking predominates. Acquisition of motor skills) Egocentricism begins strongly and then weakens. Children cannot conserve or use logical thinking.
Concrete operational stage: from ages 5 to 11 (children begin to think logically but are very concrete in their thinking) Children can now conserve and think logically but only with practical aids. They are no longer egocentric.
Formal operational stage: after age 11 (development of abstract reasoning). Children develop abstract thought and can easily conserve and think logically in their mind.

Write the anecdote down in her baby book and smile about it. Who cares?? Geez. She's only 4.

Marguerite
 
What ever you decide to do, do make it fun or just let it be. But in the mean time try recording your daughter saying this now. It will be fun to look back on it when she turns 16 or older......play the recording any younger they won't find it funny.
I recorded my son when he was about 4 or 5, while in the bath tub signing the opening song to "COPS", he wasn't aware what I was doing at that time, but had a little chuckle when I played for him when he was much older, saying "I sounded pretty good back then too".
(We only let him watch the beginning of the show when the song was playing.)
 
Lisa's only interest in anything on TVother than cartoons is dancing or singing along with the theme music unless, it is her"boyfriend" walker. She is crazy about Chuck Norris and wants to be a Taxas Ranger karate girl doctor when she grows up We told her Walker was Chuck Norris now, he is Chuck Walker:D After showing her places on the map different places have become different planets We even tried showing her the places on a globe but the only thing I succeded at was both of us and my mother laughing so hard that we could not talk. I think I will just give up for now and wait until she is a little older!

Lettitia
 
Yes, just wait awhile. My family still laughs at my son's gasket ball, burger bing and herman shepard. Our daughter contributed going to the margaret (market), going on the fruway (freeway) and when frustrated with me told me on was getting on her nervous. Before you know it your princess will be quite knowledgeable about where she lives. What you need to watch our for are those dreaded words "can I have the car tonight?" and "can I have a credit card" :eek::eek::eek:
 
My son had an entire amusement park in France for about a year... LOL The place is called Europa Park and he heard Your Ropa Park... So, when we'd ask people if they were going to join us at Europa Park... Well, he'd fuss and say "NO! It's MY Ropa Park."

So, we rectified it by adding a possessive in front of the name, Your Europa Park... It helped and he eventually sorted it out. It was funny for the year he was between 3 and a half and 4 and a half, though.
 
enjoy her little snippets! she'll figure out all the right ways to say things so soon. i love the funny little things my boys mix up in their minds & say!
 

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