kerri73
Well-known member
Hi all!
I've been on here off and on for a few years, now, but don't post very much - this is my first post in the pre-surgery forum!!
Some may know my history - in a nutshell, I was born without a wall between my atriums, had 3 surgeries by the time I was 5 years old to build/re-build the wall/septum, and then at age 24 had a 4th surgery to replace my mitral valve with an artificial one.
My doctors have been watching a gradient across my artificial valve (now 11 years old). I've been told that the time for surgery is nearing - they're scheduling a heart cath to get better readings, but they're seeing enlargement in one of my chambers (forgive me I can't remember which, that whole phone conversation was a blur!)... so it must be fairly high now. After the cath, we'll know how high, how soon we're looking at surgery, etc etc etc.
I've always taken this sort of news as a "challenge"... but we just bought a new home and I was ready to start a family, and this just scares the heck out of me!! I just need you all, like you always do, to reassure me that this will be okay.
I'm not sure if I'm more scared of the cath than the surgery. Anyone with experiences on a cath? I was a small child with no memories of my previous ones!!
Who else out there is at 4,5+ surgeries? I guess it scares me that the more you have, the more risk is involved.
One of the ideas the doctor gave me to think on was the possibility of going tissue this time, just to have children without the coumadin risk, and then switch back to a mechanical after that... thoughts?
We definitely have a lot of things to decide and think on between now and whenever the surgery ends up being... but I'm glad I have you all to come chat to about it - you definitely know where I'm coming from!
Thanks for listing!
Kerri
I've been on here off and on for a few years, now, but don't post very much - this is my first post in the pre-surgery forum!!
Some may know my history - in a nutshell, I was born without a wall between my atriums, had 3 surgeries by the time I was 5 years old to build/re-build the wall/septum, and then at age 24 had a 4th surgery to replace my mitral valve with an artificial one.
My doctors have been watching a gradient across my artificial valve (now 11 years old). I've been told that the time for surgery is nearing - they're scheduling a heart cath to get better readings, but they're seeing enlargement in one of my chambers (forgive me I can't remember which, that whole phone conversation was a blur!)... so it must be fairly high now. After the cath, we'll know how high, how soon we're looking at surgery, etc etc etc.
I've always taken this sort of news as a "challenge"... but we just bought a new home and I was ready to start a family, and this just scares the heck out of me!! I just need you all, like you always do, to reassure me that this will be okay.
I'm not sure if I'm more scared of the cath than the surgery. Anyone with experiences on a cath? I was a small child with no memories of my previous ones!!
Who else out there is at 4,5+ surgeries? I guess it scares me that the more you have, the more risk is involved.
One of the ideas the doctor gave me to think on was the possibility of going tissue this time, just to have children without the coumadin risk, and then switch back to a mechanical after that... thoughts?
We definitely have a lot of things to decide and think on between now and whenever the surgery ends up being... but I'm glad I have you all to come chat to about it - you definitely know where I'm coming from!
Thanks for listing!
Kerri