almost_hectic
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Okay so my AVR is next Tuesday and I'm getting encouragement and well wishes from friends and such, which is great. But they all want to be updated when I'm out of surgery and such. Don't get me wrong I'm happy to have people concerned but updating everyone is likely not to be high on my priorities when I come out of surgery. So what's the best way to do this? Multiple phone calls, email list, text messages? Not sure?... How have others done this? Maybe it's a personal flaw but I get really uncomfortable when people gush over me with sympathy. So having to answer the whole how are you feeling question a hundred times or so seems daunting. Especially since I imagine I'm still going to be largely out of sorts and very tired or drugged. Am I being selfish for thinking that way?