When deciding about my second surgery last year, my cardio consulted with four other doctors in his group for their opinions. They were all in agreement which made my decision much easier. He truly was disappointed the direction things took for me despite his (and my) best efforts. He wanted others to give their opinion about his interpretation of my tests etc
My surgeon (same as the one who did my first), also gave a lot of consideration and while we were consulting with him, I got the impression he was mentally going through a check list to see if enough of my symptoms, test results, physical exam really indicated the time had come for a re-op. No surgeon I would want as my doctor makes the determination without serious thought.
Best wishes to you and while the wait is difficult, it is best to wait until it really is 'time'.