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Leighanne
As many of you know that have read my other posts I have a son, almost 5, who is autistic and has epilepsy. He is not verbal, has not sense of danger (he would walk out in front of a car, into a pond, jump off the balcony, play with knives etc) and I cannot let him out of my sight. He does not even climb into his car seat on his own. If I dont hold his hand at all times, when outside, he would run off and keep running, no, stop, dont do that, mean nothing despite years of behavior modification. He weighs 45 pounds and is stronger than I am.
So what I am asking is for suggestions, input, whatever you got, on how to do this. Did I mention I am 1400 miles from my family and my mother in law will only be here for 2 weeks (most of which I guess I will be in hospital) Other family members could help but they dont know my son well, how to deal with seizures, and to be honest, without detail, most could not truely help.
I am having TV ring, PVR with bovine tissue, full MAZE and procedure to decrease size of pulmonary artery and expected hospital stay is 2 weeks. What can I expect as far as ability physically to deal with this situation? I have some in home support but not to get my son ready for school in the a.m, getting him home and for the aprox 3 hours in the afternoon when I would not have help. My husband can take time off, but this is a unique situation so can he use all his family leave? He cant afford leave without pay and only have a couple weeks of sick leave. I just dont know how I will do it, and dont know who to ask, I am so tired from the PV issue and A fib that I dont have time nor the energy to figure it out. I think I am in the minority, dont know any other parents or CHD folks who share both these problems.
Part of this is to vent and part is to get input, so thanks
Leighanne
Surgery date May 11th, Childrens Hospital Boston, Surgeon; Dr.Pedro del Nido,
So what I am asking is for suggestions, input, whatever you got, on how to do this. Did I mention I am 1400 miles from my family and my mother in law will only be here for 2 weeks (most of which I guess I will be in hospital) Other family members could help but they dont know my son well, how to deal with seizures, and to be honest, without detail, most could not truely help.
I am having TV ring, PVR with bovine tissue, full MAZE and procedure to decrease size of pulmonary artery and expected hospital stay is 2 weeks. What can I expect as far as ability physically to deal with this situation? I have some in home support but not to get my son ready for school in the a.m, getting him home and for the aprox 3 hours in the afternoon when I would not have help. My husband can take time off, but this is a unique situation so can he use all his family leave? He cant afford leave without pay and only have a couple weeks of sick leave. I just dont know how I will do it, and dont know who to ask, I am so tired from the PV issue and A fib that I dont have time nor the energy to figure it out. I think I am in the minority, dont know any other parents or CHD folks who share both these problems.
Part of this is to vent and part is to get input, so thanks
Leighanne
Surgery date May 11th, Childrens Hospital Boston, Surgeon; Dr.Pedro del Nido,