Any singles out there who are WAY pre surgery and have minor AS and are on a beta blocker ? How has getting diagnosed as having AS and/or beta blockers affected your confidence in the dating world ? thanks !
OPH does not affect dating at all. It is the mind at work. Medication does not affect dating either. just the state of mind of the patient. I am a single person, who has not dated much and am quite content being a (what they called single women at one time) a spinster. No men, no children to worry about. Just relax and enjoy life. You are alive and that counts for something. I know it is hard at times, but just think, it is just yourself, not having to worry about someone else. Try it.Any singles out there who are WAY pre surgery and have minor AS and are on a beta blocker ? How has getting diagnosed as having AS and/or beta blockers affected your confidence in the dating world ? thanks !
my best relationships have come from times in my life when that exactly described me. I met my wife when I was a student in South Korea for instance..Plus I got no job, never had a career, own no home..But yes I live a simple cheap life in Thailand
Speak for yourself..... as it represents an insignificant portion of your time together.
Just my 2c
You do not need children since you cannot provide for yourself. Kids are expensive these days, medicine, school supplies and clothes, diapers, clothes, clothes and clothes. Learn to love and respect yourself first, then get the girlfriend, then if you are not too old, make babies. No rush at your age to make babies, you need to care of yourself first.And of course I still think about having kids I've never had kids neither one of my brothers had kids but family is dying off it's very depressing. And yes a lot of the women I've dated recently have said they don't want to be with me or have concerns are going to die young.. their attitude is like why should I Fall In Love or be in a relationship with somebody with heart disease is going to die young and leave me early and leave me disappointed and crushed?
So sorry about your son's health issue. He will be fine with his friends. Just keep making sure he knows he does not need to have marriage and kids to have a relationship with a woman. And he has nothing to prove to anyone that he can marry. He is fine and he will eventually find the special person someday. Hugs for you both.The more I read this thread the more I think of my son. My son is 30 and has Asperger’s syndrome. He can’t get a girlfriend either and he’d dearly like one. He wants lots of friends too - he has some ‘friends' but they’re not real close friendships. He’s handsome and intelligent but I suppose other people, particularly girls, pick up the subtle social difference in him. He meets girls at pubs and clubs but it makes to difference. It’s very frustrating for him and it increases his depression and anxiety as he sees other young men his age in successful relationships but can’t understand why not him. He also doesn’t have a job - and again thinks he should be able to have one, should be able to earn tons of money….but he isn’t able to and gets very depressed about it. He lives on social security benefits.
My son hasn’t got bicuspid aortic valve. Thankgoodness. He keeps getting his GP to check his heart, but all sounds are normal I’m glad to say. By his age my bicuspid valve was clearly heard.