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rhino19
We have started the countdown. My husbands surgery is Monday and one part of me is planning a big family BBQ Sunday to get everyone together and the other part of me is telling me he may look at it as a last meal. I have read a lot of posts over the last few weeks and got a lot of insight but I am still on the outside looking in and cant totally understand all his feelings. I am looking from some insight from you, the patients who actually have been there. How were you feeling right before, did you want to be left alone, did you feel the need to see friends and family. He is so up and down right now that I am really carefull not to hit a nerve. One second I am like "yes he is himself" and the next second I am like "walk a thin line with him now". I know he feels love and support from all us (family, friends) but he acts like he is in this alone. Well I don't know what to do and right now I am "walking that thin line" hopefully in a few hours it will turn, it does that so quickly.