Hi JoJo,
Ive been keeping up with your posts,and yes so difficult on family
sitting watching those of us that are in need of surgery.
I had a avr 16 years ago and then too i had a leaky mitral valve.
My surgeon said the leaky m valve would outlast the mechanical he'd replaced 16 years ago........Well it hasn't due to having endocarditis
in 2006 and alot of other things wrong,i'm in need of a mvr soon.
47 years old now and since nov.2007 the symptoms began with the mitral.
I am just waiting for another cardiologist appointment in another city.
I started having episodes of leg edema,episodes of dyspnea,angina,i am
in chronic artrial fib,my legs are quite puffy but hasnot travelled to my ankles
as i have also the heart failure,so my family dr. is watching me closely till
i get my appointment,i am working at a rcmp detach,cellblock the cement floor,kills me my legs feel like 100 lb. sandbags at end of shift. Stairs leave me breathless,walkings a chore,but one thing your dad knows his limits as i do.The left arterial side of my heart is swollen and im still tredding,but carefully.My family would rather i stay home,but i find my sanity in my work
and my coworkers are understanding and some have had ohs as well.
But 2nd time surgery for me and my oldest son to youngest to my 26 year old daughter are not coping well with it either,they were to little 16 years ago to remember.My husband went through this on the other side already,hes more prepared for 2nd round.All i can say is it is so difficult on the family the ones not having surgery themselves and sitting back watching us,such as you watching your dad,I couldn't imagine if it were my husband or children trading places with me and i on the other side of this would be so stressful. I still commend this waiting is the hardest on everyone and thats were i really need to keep busy at work,this is just my point of view,and opinion on self,but i want you to know that these words of comfort are so true,we know our limits
our body tells us and im sure your dad is keeping his mind occupied as well.
I do hope you get him to vr site if you can,and JoJo my prayers are with you
at this time,and keep us posted
zipper2