lynnconnolly
Well-known member
Hi everyone, my sincere thanks to everyone who posted replies to my concerns about the endotrachial tube. Your advice and honesty about your experiences has helped enormously. It now seems however that I won't be having to worry about the vent in the immediate future.
I went for an echo yesterday and received some unexpected good news and not some not entirely welcome news. Basically, because my condition was caused by Cabergoline (Dostinex), and my doctor has never treated a similar case, nor have his colleagues, he has no precedent to help him decide what's likely to happen with me except that some people have been known to recover to some degree - though not a complete reversal of the conditions - once they stopped taking Cabergoline. When I was first admitted to hospital I was in a critical and life threatening condition and lucky to be alive. The cardiologist first said that my mitral valve would have to be replaced but didn't mention the aortic valve at the time. He said my PH was 'significant' but I don't know what the figures were that are associated with that.
Then, after my angiogram, he said that the mitral valve had improved somewhat and could possibly be repaired but the aortic valve had to be replaced. The PH was still 'significant' and I still had left-sided heart failure.
Yesterday, I went for a follow up echo and the good news is that both valves continue to improve and now, he says I don't need surgery in any kind of a hurry. It could even be years away. Previously, the only reason they were delaying doing it was because he wasn't sure I'd make it through the op and wanted the meds to have a chance to make me stronger and hoped that the PH would abate enough so that the pressure wasn't so bad in my lungs.
Yesterday, he described both valves as 'moderate' while he was talking wiht his student doctor who carried out the echo while he looked on. He wants me to stop taking furosemide for two weeks, then go back for another echo to see how things are going without it. He said my PH has improved radically too. On the face of it, these are of course all good news things however I'm now in limbo...
He said that looking at the echo yesterday, he can see no reason why I'd feel as unwell as I do or have the chest pain that I do or find even moderate exercise a huge uphill battle. This is a familiar and depressing story to me as I was seeing doctors for six months before my emergency admission to hospital and they all said they couldn't find anything wrong with me. So I spent months battling against exhaustion and feeling awful all the time, dragging myself to work and believing myself to be a hypochondriac only to end up finally being diagnosed once I was at death's door.
Now, I'm faced with feeling like this for an indefinite period of time, whereas even though I didn't want the surgery itself, I did want the positive gains after it. While I had an approximate time scale for surgery, I could reassure myself that this feeling ghastly all the time would soon be over. X number of months, and I'd be back to normal, or better than normal. Now, there's no finite time and I'm back to being told I shouldn't be feeling this unwell.
It's depressed me a lot. It should have been the best news I could get and I should be overjoyed. The fact I'm not makes me feel somewhat hypochondriac because it makes it sound like I wanted the surgery and therefore wanted to be very ill. That's not it, it's just that I hate uncertainty and I hate that I'm back to square one in many ways with him saying he can't see why I feel this ill. So, as I say, I'm now faced with the prospect of feeling like this for god-knows how long, with no end in sight, and worse still, the doctor telling me there's no good reason for me to feel this bad.
He's a lovely man and a good doctor, but he never gives me the opportunity to ask him much. I wanted to know the figures relating to heart and lung pressures for example so I could ask you guys about them. I wanted to know if I still had heart-failure etc., but he's very brusque and moves on very very fast, so I don't get to ask these things. I suppose what I wanted was to say to you all, 'this is the pressure figure he gave me' or 'this is the x-value of this thing' if you see what I mean because then, if someone said, 'yes, that's the same as mine and I too still feel this ill' then I wouldn't be stuck with this horrible feeling of being a malingerer. I'd feel validated if you see what I mean. Ultimately, the doctor knows the medical mechanics of my condition of course, but he's never had it himself so he can't know what I'm feeling.
I feel guilty that I'm not happier that my surgery has been delayed. There must be dozens of people on this forum who would give their right arm to spontaneously improve and not need urgent surgery but I can't help feeling very depressed that it looks like there's now no end in sight to feeling this crappy. Thanks for letting me whinge... again... at length, again... and I can't tell you how glad I am that I have you all to talk to. People who don't have these problems just don't understand so it means a lot to me to have you guys. Thank you.
Lynn
I went for an echo yesterday and received some unexpected good news and not some not entirely welcome news. Basically, because my condition was caused by Cabergoline (Dostinex), and my doctor has never treated a similar case, nor have his colleagues, he has no precedent to help him decide what's likely to happen with me except that some people have been known to recover to some degree - though not a complete reversal of the conditions - once they stopped taking Cabergoline. When I was first admitted to hospital I was in a critical and life threatening condition and lucky to be alive. The cardiologist first said that my mitral valve would have to be replaced but didn't mention the aortic valve at the time. He said my PH was 'significant' but I don't know what the figures were that are associated with that.
Then, after my angiogram, he said that the mitral valve had improved somewhat and could possibly be repaired but the aortic valve had to be replaced. The PH was still 'significant' and I still had left-sided heart failure.
Yesterday, I went for a follow up echo and the good news is that both valves continue to improve and now, he says I don't need surgery in any kind of a hurry. It could even be years away. Previously, the only reason they were delaying doing it was because he wasn't sure I'd make it through the op and wanted the meds to have a chance to make me stronger and hoped that the PH would abate enough so that the pressure wasn't so bad in my lungs.
Yesterday, he described both valves as 'moderate' while he was talking wiht his student doctor who carried out the echo while he looked on. He wants me to stop taking furosemide for two weeks, then go back for another echo to see how things are going without it. He said my PH has improved radically too. On the face of it, these are of course all good news things however I'm now in limbo...
He said that looking at the echo yesterday, he can see no reason why I'd feel as unwell as I do or have the chest pain that I do or find even moderate exercise a huge uphill battle. This is a familiar and depressing story to me as I was seeing doctors for six months before my emergency admission to hospital and they all said they couldn't find anything wrong with me. So I spent months battling against exhaustion and feeling awful all the time, dragging myself to work and believing myself to be a hypochondriac only to end up finally being diagnosed once I was at death's door.
Now, I'm faced with feeling like this for an indefinite period of time, whereas even though I didn't want the surgery itself, I did want the positive gains after it. While I had an approximate time scale for surgery, I could reassure myself that this feeling ghastly all the time would soon be over. X number of months, and I'd be back to normal, or better than normal. Now, there's no finite time and I'm back to being told I shouldn't be feeling this unwell.
It's depressed me a lot. It should have been the best news I could get and I should be overjoyed. The fact I'm not makes me feel somewhat hypochondriac because it makes it sound like I wanted the surgery and therefore wanted to be very ill. That's not it, it's just that I hate uncertainty and I hate that I'm back to square one in many ways with him saying he can't see why I feel this ill. So, as I say, I'm now faced with the prospect of feeling like this for god-knows how long, with no end in sight, and worse still, the doctor telling me there's no good reason for me to feel this bad.
He's a lovely man and a good doctor, but he never gives me the opportunity to ask him much. I wanted to know the figures relating to heart and lung pressures for example so I could ask you guys about them. I wanted to know if I still had heart-failure etc., but he's very brusque and moves on very very fast, so I don't get to ask these things. I suppose what I wanted was to say to you all, 'this is the pressure figure he gave me' or 'this is the x-value of this thing' if you see what I mean because then, if someone said, 'yes, that's the same as mine and I too still feel this ill' then I wouldn't be stuck with this horrible feeling of being a malingerer. I'd feel validated if you see what I mean. Ultimately, the doctor knows the medical mechanics of my condition of course, but he's never had it himself so he can't know what I'm feeling.
I feel guilty that I'm not happier that my surgery has been delayed. There must be dozens of people on this forum who would give their right arm to spontaneously improve and not need urgent surgery but I can't help feeling very depressed that it looks like there's now no end in sight to feeling this crappy. Thanks for letting me whinge... again... at length, again... and I can't tell you how glad I am that I have you all to talk to. People who don't have these problems just don't understand so it means a lot to me to have you guys. Thank you.
Lynn