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I just want to tell you that I had a mitral valve repair last October, and 3 weeks later I felt wonderful (sore chest of course). My repair was more complicated than most, but I had a wonderful surgeon, and when I was awakened by my husband and told that everything had gone well and that the surgeon had been able to do a repair (I had 80% chance for a repair), I gave the "thumbs up" sign (I was intubated and could not talk). Every day I felt a bit better.

Another thing you could do to prepare for her coming home is to put a plastic lawn chair (or something) in the shower (if you have a walk-in shower) so that the first week she can sit on it taking a shower.

She is doing the right thing in having the operation now while the valve is still able to be repaired.

I will think of you on October 3.
 
Just wanted to send you and your wife Lisa lots of positive thoughts and best wishes as you prepare for her surgery. I also have a leaky mitral valve without any symptoms and am still in the "waiting room". It is very frustrating to say the least but with the love and support of my dear husband, i am dealing with it... So just be there for Lisa even if you do have to break down - she needs you no matter what! We do not have children so I can't offer any advice along those lines. You all have my prayers!

Take Care!
Susie
 
In response to questions about recovery milestones in your private mail, I thought it best to reply publicly on the forum in case others may also be interested.

There are MANY milestones along the road to recovery from Open Heart Surgery which may take anywhere from a few months to a year or more depending on the individual, age, other factors, etc. Naturally, younger, first time patients tend to heal faster than older patients or repeat patients.

Here are the significant Milestones as I see them:

1 - Surviving Surgery - the surgeon will talk with you afterwards and tell you how he feels it went

2 - ICU / intubation / drain tube removal / pacemaker wire removal. ICU stay can vary from 1 day to 2 or 3 when there are no major complications. Major complications are NOT common for otherwise healthy first time patients. Most 'normal' stays in the hospital vary from 4 to 7 days, depending on how rapidly the patient is recovering (i.e. being able to walk the prescribed distances before release etc.)

3 - The first 2 weeks, most patients feel VERY WEAK and tire easily. It is best to have someone with her most of the time for at least the first week and preferably for 2 weeks if that can be arranged.

4 - Weeks 2 to 6 is when significant strides can be seen for most patients. Some days will be better than others, but as long as there is discernable progress on a weekly basis, that is a good sign. By 6 weeks many are able to drive and even to return to work. At this point, the sternum should be healed to 80% of normal strength. This is a good time to begin Cardiac Rehabilitation if your insurance will cover the cost. Otherwise, get a list of stretches and exercises from the surgeon or Rehab facility and do them at home.

5 - At 12 weeks, the sternum should be fully healed and she should be 'most of the way back' to normal. Some patients continue to note improvement for several more months. A balance of regular exercise (mostly walking and stretches) and rest is the key to a steady recovery. Resist the urge to go too fast or do too much. That only sets you back.

With a FULL sternum cut, many of us had INTENSE muscle pains from being stretched WAY beyond our normal range of motion. MASSAGE is BETTER and FASTER than any pain medication at relieving Muscle Pain.

If you haven't burned out on reading, there is an excellent book entitled "Overcoming Heart Surgery and Bypassing Depression" by J. Jude, M.D. et.al. which includes a chapter on what to expect week by week during recovery.

Fingers crossed for a successful REPAIR!

'AL Capshaw'
 
Al,

Thanks for the detailed message and timeline.

Our surgeon had told us he planned to make a minimally invasive incisision which I took to be in a horizontal direction. Basically, between ribs I think. Does that sound right?

We were told that it could be more painful initially, but should heal quicker.

You are the second person who noted that massage is a good technique here to relieve pain and generally relax. Sounds good to me.

Thanks Al.

Dan
 
Minimally invasive technique

Minimally invasive technique

I had been hoping to have the minimally invasive surgery where they go betwen the ribs on the right side. My case was too complicated. However, I correspond with a woman who is a friend of a friend who had a mitral valve repair by the minimally invasive method, and she was back at work 3 weeks later!!!! If your wife can have that, it would be fantastic!!!
 
Wife Scheduled For Surgery, I'm Scared

All,

Sorry about this late report but I am now just getting to my computer.

Lisa's surgery was performed this morning by Dr. Craig Smith at Columbia Presbyterian Hospital in New York. I'm happy to report that the operation went smoothly and Dr. Smith was able to repair the mitral valve. The surgery was completed by about noon and Lisa was moved to the CICU by about 1 PM.

The breathing tube was removed around 5 PM and we were able to talk. She was resting somewhat comfortably when I left at 10 PM but had a fair amount of pain at the incision locations. Plan as of this evening was a move to the step down unit some time tomorrow.

Thanks to all of you for your support, prayers and advice. It really helped to have that kind of backup prior to surgery.

I'll keep you posted on Lisa's progress through out this week as she recovers.

Thanks again.

Dan and Lisa
 
Dan,

Thanks for the update. I hope now that you can get some rest and feel a bit more relaxed. Great to hear about the repair.

Hope things continue to go smoothly.
 
Dan.............

Dan.............

Sorry so late, but I just saw this. I am so grateful that things went well. Please do keep us posted. Many hugs. Janet
 
Hello Dan,
So happy to hear that Lisa's surgery went well! I was thinking of all of you all day Tuesday. I hope that you got some good sleep last night and that you find Lisa in good condition when you see her today. Give her my best wishes for an easy and uneventful recovery!

Take Care!
Susie

P.S. Hope your children are doing well too!
 
Just the kind of good news we were all waiting for. Give her our best wishes for a speedy and uneventful recovery. We look forward to your next update!
 
wonderful news!!!!!

wonderful news!!!!!

So happy for the good news! Continued prayers and best wishes for a successful recovery!!
 
Thanks for the update Dan. Congratulations to you and Lisa on completion of the first hurdle. Now it is time to focus on the recovery.

Keep us updated.

David
 
Fantastic! Did you say before that it was going to be a minimally invasive type of repair? Keep us informed, and thumbs up from me!
 

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