Thanks for all the encouragement here, folks!! I DO want a second opinion - particularly in light of the TIMING of the surgery and the wisdom of taking a new valve still under evaluation. But, first, some background:
I was seeing a local cardio, a bit of a dud. Then I got a new PC doc, and in the last year and a half, he has sent me to three cardios in DC. The first DC guy admitted my case was beyond his expertise. The second DC guy changed his mind every time he saw me (and the surgeon he consulted with said "bovine" with no further explanation). The third guy (my current cardio whom I've been with for a year) sent me to his buddy at Mayo Clinic because of my possible Marfan's and to be evaluated with respect to a possible repair. The Mayo surgeon says I am a somewhat complex case, not just with the possible Marfan's and the aneurysm, but that my valve abnormality is not typical of what they usually see. He might be able to repair it, though it's doubtful. And Mayo Clinic, along with a place in Oklahoma, are the only two places getting the new aortic CryoValves at this time, which they are recommending to me.
So, I am hesitant to go back to my PC doc, not because I am timid, but because I am wondering who else is left around here for him to refer me to, who would have some insights into my situation or something better to offer than Mayo Clinic, or who deals with the new CryoValve (being, as I said, in limited circulation now) AND with repairs. How do I find a surgeon who deals with cases like mine? Keep in mind that I am in a semi-rural hole here. I am already out-of-network-but-approved for Mayo Clinic, so I'm wondering if my insurance company would be agreeable to my going to Cleveland Clinic or another such place for a second opinion. And Mayo Clinic is more than I could have ever asked for - I never dreamt of hooking up with such a Big Dog place - so am I now asking for too much by wanting more? I have confidence in the surgeon there. But I would have even MORE confidence (enough to dial that number for a surgery date!) if I had another competent voice telling me the same things that he is. And you're right, it's $$ versus my life. I don't mind shelling out some bucks. I just don't know who to go to.
Well, now that I am thinking about this here, and what everyone has written, I'm thinking I should just go see my PC and say "what about Cleveland" and "what about Hopkins" for a second opinion, and see what he can do for me........???? Bill, I'll give a call to Cleveland to see who they would recommend for me, and have Dr. Griffin's name handy as a backup.
Thanks for the pep talk. Sometimes I think the surgery's going to be easier than wading through all this pre-surgery stuff....?!!
I'll keep you posted! Best wishes to everyone here, and thanks again,
-Jennie