Welcome!
Welcome!
Hi,
My name is Jean. I had my mitral valve repaired on May 30th this year, and I totally understand your fears. I'm sure it's scary for everyone.
My cardiac surgeon put me at ease right away when I met with him for the first time. He said that he was 99% sure that he could repair my valve, "because I usually can" and that if it wasn't repairable, he was going to use a mechanical valve because of my age, (44), and the fact that bio valves sometimes need to be replaced after a few years. He seemed very confident of his ability to fix it which made me comfortable that he really knew his stuff.
He had a model of a heart sitting on the table and explained to us, (me, my husband and my 5yr old daughter) where the mitral valve was, and what he was going to do. My daughter had some great questions for him, and he was very patient with her, which made me think he was a really nice guy.
As far as donating your own blood, it might depend on just how soon your surgery is, I know mine didn't want me to, cuz he wanted me as strong as possible going into surgery. As it turned out, I didn't need any blood anyway, but I certainly could have.
You might want to ask him if you'll need to be on Coumadin for a while after surgery. My surgeon had told me about the need to be on it for life if they ended up doing a replacement, but I don't remember him mentioning anything about having to be on it for 8 weeks following repair surgery until after the surgery. It was really no big deal, I just thought he should have let me know beforehand.
Good Luck, keep us posted, okay?