SHEEPDOG
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Here,s the reality. I am now 11 days POST-OP and I have SO much STUFF (trying to be G rated here) going on and I don't know how long I should be expecting it to last. Perhaps some who have been there could help.
1. I am at times SUCH an emotional wreck it is scary. Not all the time! just occasionally. I have posted in response to others questions about mood swings, crying at songs, getting pissy for minor stuff, etc. I guess I can say there's a bit of depression mixed in. The reason for the depression will be clear below.
2. People say I look good. I say BULL&%$(. I look at myself in the mirror and I look bloated, my arms look skinny, I am loosing weight because I can't eat anything and have it taste 1/2 way normal. I can't walk around TARGET without feeling like i'm 80 years old, (not that there's anything wrong with 80 but I am 43 and was in pretty decent shape)
3. Food! I MISS IT!!! I can understand the Hospital food not being edible but it takes a MIGHTY effort to choke down ANYTHING. I can't drink anything but water, I can't eat cereal, SUGAR is my drug of choice and I can't eat cake, candy, etc. This is why I am loosing weight!. I called the Pharmacy and asked about the Darvocet being a cause. He said that none of my meds (except the COUMADIN in rare instances) have taste disruption as a side effect. WHAT IF I AM A RARE INCIDENT???
4. WEAK is NOT something I have ever been. Perhaps not SUPERMAN but NOT like this. As you know, I have been a POLICE officer for 3 years, CORRECTIONS officer for 10 years, moved furniture, etc for many years before that. NOW i go up my steps in the house and I am winded. I go on what I consider EXTREMELY short walks with only slight hills and I feel like I did some REAL work. Heck, I got up last night to check if my wife let the dog in and I actually forgot about my condition until I really woke up. I was WASTED. A trip to the backyard yesterday had me panting when I came back in. My MIND knows the severity of what I had done but the rest of me can't BELIEVE how HARD this hit.
This sounds PETTY I know. I don't know if I am expecting TOO much at 11 days or is this STANDARD. I have never had anything THIS drastic done medically. Mood swings and all, Is that PAR for the course? The FOOD thing REALLY has me down. I know I need to eat and I want to eat but YUCK!
Could you all do what you do best and help me with your own experiences. I know in my head that this is all temporary but if I could narrow the time frame down it would be easier to take. I know that others here have MUCH worse stuff going on and I thank the LORD that I am even alive to have these problems. I just want to be NORMAL again and it is out of my CONTROL. COPS ARE ALWAYS IN CONTROL! or at least working like hell to get there!
ANY HELP WOULD BE APPRECIATED.
THANX
1. I am at times SUCH an emotional wreck it is scary. Not all the time! just occasionally. I have posted in response to others questions about mood swings, crying at songs, getting pissy for minor stuff, etc. I guess I can say there's a bit of depression mixed in. The reason for the depression will be clear below.
2. People say I look good. I say BULL&%$(. I look at myself in the mirror and I look bloated, my arms look skinny, I am loosing weight because I can't eat anything and have it taste 1/2 way normal. I can't walk around TARGET without feeling like i'm 80 years old, (not that there's anything wrong with 80 but I am 43 and was in pretty decent shape)
3. Food! I MISS IT!!! I can understand the Hospital food not being edible but it takes a MIGHTY effort to choke down ANYTHING. I can't drink anything but water, I can't eat cereal, SUGAR is my drug of choice and I can't eat cake, candy, etc. This is why I am loosing weight!. I called the Pharmacy and asked about the Darvocet being a cause. He said that none of my meds (except the COUMADIN in rare instances) have taste disruption as a side effect. WHAT IF I AM A RARE INCIDENT???
4. WEAK is NOT something I have ever been. Perhaps not SUPERMAN but NOT like this. As you know, I have been a POLICE officer for 3 years, CORRECTIONS officer for 10 years, moved furniture, etc for many years before that. NOW i go up my steps in the house and I am winded. I go on what I consider EXTREMELY short walks with only slight hills and I feel like I did some REAL work. Heck, I got up last night to check if my wife let the dog in and I actually forgot about my condition until I really woke up. I was WASTED. A trip to the backyard yesterday had me panting when I came back in. My MIND knows the severity of what I had done but the rest of me can't BELIEVE how HARD this hit.
This sounds PETTY I know. I don't know if I am expecting TOO much at 11 days or is this STANDARD. I have never had anything THIS drastic done medically. Mood swings and all, Is that PAR for the course? The FOOD thing REALLY has me down. I know I need to eat and I want to eat but YUCK!
Could you all do what you do best and help me with your own experiences. I know in my head that this is all temporary but if I could narrow the time frame down it would be easier to take. I know that others here have MUCH worse stuff going on and I thank the LORD that I am even alive to have these problems. I just want to be NORMAL again and it is out of my CONTROL. COPS ARE ALWAYS IN CONTROL! or at least working like hell to get there!
ANY HELP WOULD BE APPRECIATED.
THANX