My severe aortic regurgitation was sudden onset at age 46. Literally overnight - I woke up with symptoms including a pulsation throughout my body, out of breath walking up a flight of stairs, unable to go more than 5 minutes on my treadmill, etc. After a month of denial (and prompting from my wife) I made an appointment and an echo was scheduled.
In my first appointment with a cardiologist he described it as severe aortic regurgitation and gave me 3-4 years to live without surgery. That was concerning, but did not enlighten me on how
urgent surgical intervention was. So I asked these questions:
- How severe is the leak on a 1-10 scale with 10 being worst? My cardio said they don't assess it that way, but I pressed him and he eventually said 10.
- Is there any damage to my heart yet? He said my left ventricle was stretched, but that is not necessarily permanent.
- How long before there is permanent damage to my heart? He said he couldn't estimate that. I pressed him again for an answer and he said could be as soon as 6 months.
Based on those answers and his comment that they usually schedule surgery sooner rather than later for someone experiencing my symptoms, I was persuaded it was urgent. So I had surgery 3 weeks later.
It turns out the regurgitation was caused by the sudden rupture of a cord that was attached to the defective leaflet. The other end apparently was attached somewhere inside my heart, ruptured and the leaflet prolapsed. Up until that point my valve was functioning normally as far as I know.
Cords on valves are very rare. I doubt you have that. I can't answer whether you should wait, but sounds like you need more info to determine urgency . Ultimately a detailed conversation with your cardiologist should help you determine if you can wait. I recommend reviewing severity of your symptoms with your cardio and asking questions similar to above to help you determine if this is an urgent situation that warrants seeking surgery elsewhere or if you can wait.