Bye bye doctor

Valve Replacement Forums

Help Support Valve Replacement Forums:

This site may earn a commission from merchant affiliate links, including eBay, Amazon, and others.

sue943

Well-known member
Joined
Jan 6, 2006
Messages
1,555
Location
Jersey, Channel Islands (British Isles)
Living in such a small community we have little or no choice in the doctors we see, other than our general practioners. When I first became ill over two years ago there was a locum cardiologist and he was fantastic in every way, brilliant as a doctor and fantastic manner, plus for good measure he is only what one can describe as 'eye candy'. Regretably he didn't stay but for some months after leaving he used to visit once a month to see his private patients. Then at the end of last year he had to stop this as he was refused permission to prescribe drugs and to order any tests such as ECG, echos etc, this was to force us to use the new cardiologist.

Reluctantly I changed to the new permanent cardiologist whom I have now seen twice. This is a very highly qualified doctor, but just not the same. When I last went to see him, just a few weeks ago, the receptionist said that the former cardiologist was coming over with his family for a holiday and would like to say goodbye to some of his former patients. She asked if I would like to see him. I naturally jumped at the opportunity.

I was able to thank him for his care and to give him a small gift. Then he examined me and it was reassuring for me when he said the same as the other cardiologist, that all is well.

Whilst we were talking I told him that at times I wondered if I had made the right choice in going for mechanical. He said that given my age at the time, 57, and the fact that it was two valves then he thought the correct decision had been made. He said that although re-operation at 70ish is quite normal these days and mostly very successful but one would have needed to think hard about the possibility of a double valve replacement when there is considerable scar tissue. In his opinion to avoid that was probably a good decision. He then went on to say that he could see that I was managing fine with ACT and obviously knew the rules, to keep the intake of greens and alcohol steady and not just pigging out from time to time, to dose the diet and not to alter my lifestyle to suit the drug.

All in all it was a good meeting with him. He said we are friends for life and should I ever wish to talk to him, as a friend, then to phone him. Such a nice man.
 
Hi, Sue---

I remember you mentioning how much you liked your cardiologist. That's sweet that you got to see him one last time. My pediatric cardio and I still keep in touch and he says I can come by anytime to visit. I haven't had the chance to pop by his office for a chat, but it's nice to know I still have a connection with him. I only hope that when Dr. V retires, we'll be able to keep in touch, too. We have a great rapport with each other. He's not "eye candy," but a great doctor anyway.

I wish there were more caring cardiologists like the ones we've had. Be sure to keep in touch with him, and I'm sure you will.

Debi (debster913)
 
Yeah, I'll contrast your story, Sue, with mine: *My* surgeon retired shortly after operating on me last summer! What does THAT tell yah!? Heh...

Fortunately my cardiologist is still around. I haven't forced him out of the biz yet. He's a nice guy too, and was very "on the ball" when he listened to my heart last spring & said "that sounds different." He was certainly right. Moral of the story I guess is to try not to take the good ones for granted....
 
Sue:

Glad you got to see a favorite doctor. Kinda hard to lose one like this. At least you were provided the opportunity to see him while he was on holiday. Not many professionals would give up leisure time to see former patients.
 

Latest posts

Back
Top