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    Nervous about Surgery and the Odds

    Interesting...maybe after surgery, right now is not a good time for any other data but I will check out the link...Thanks!
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    Nervous about Surgery and the Odds

    Thanks Michele...I like it!
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    Nervous about Surgery and the Odds

    Thank you Pellicle for your reply. Your are a good writer...I alway overedit my posts and usually end up deleting most of what I type, so I am impressed. I am just waking up and don't want to miss what is right in front of me. Seeing a councilor has really been helpful. She asked me what I...
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    Nervous about Surgery and the Odds

    I am deffinately throwing everthing at this upcomming event...counceling, Yoga, eating clean, i have my hospital team and aftercare teams all set up...feeling better about the surgery today than I did 3 months ago when it was scheduled. I can't wait to move forward, start jogging again and...
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    Surgery Date is set, now it's decision time!

    Glad to hear the outcome! I am also 42 and having surgery in 4 weeks...my cardio and surgeon are split like yours...I am going mechanical.
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    Some Questions for the Ladies

    Thanks! I asked some other pre meno ladies on the Anti Coag Board about it...wasn't sure how the meds would effect my periods. I took their advise to move forward with it.
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    Some Questions for the Ladies

    I am not due for surgery for a few weeks but I am planning ahead. As for TOM, since I will be on Coumadin after my surgery, I am having an endo ablation done this Friday to ease up the flow. I am lucky that I am an A cup and can waer a just a tank top with a shelf bra for support. I was also...
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    Nervous about Surgery and the Odds

    That was a little dark. Sorry. I really am trying to embrase the positive and am looking forward to the relief of having the surgery over so I can stop obsessing over it. Really, thank you for the support...I do appreciate the time and thought that goes into simple answering someones...
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    Nervous about Surgery and the Odds

    Thank you all. It is comforting to know that you all came through and I do like my odds when I think about it logically yet a part of me keeps thinking corpses don't post to the boards.
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    How did you deal with anxiety and depression?

    Newbie-I am sorry you are feeling so crappy. I am waiting for my OHS-AVR...39 days to go. I too have feelings similar to you, I am 42. I however am married with two kids and am not happy. Why the hell am I not happy? I am trying to figure that out. For my anxiety my cardiologist has given me...
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    Nervous about Surgery and the Odds

    Thank you all for the reality check...waiting is deffinately hard.
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    Nervous about Surgery and the Odds

    A co-worker's mother underwent AVR on September 10. We have the same surgeon and I was anxious to find out how things went for her. Unfortunately and tragically she did not make it through the first day in ICU. I trust my surgeon but I am also abruptly confronted by my mortality.
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    Female, 42, mother, AVR scheduled for 11/4 Seeking likewise for discussions/support

    Thank you Clay, I don't feel that my sex drive has slowed with maturity but I do feel that I no longer desire my husband sexually. We have had difficult times over the past 6 years and luckily or unluckily my brain steers my ability to get arroused. I don't know if I can get over the past which...
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    Female, 42, mother, AVR scheduled for 11/4 Seeking likewise for discussions/support

    Thank you Tom...I will schedule a "date night" with each of the important men in my life...and my three chihuahuas too :)
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    Female, 42, mother, AVR scheduled for 11/4 Seeking likewise for discussions/support

    Thank you for sharing N Jean-What a story...heartbreak of the emotional kind. Did you ever find another love? I know my husband is a good man but is being a good man enough? Our physical relationship has been very limited...my mind prevents me from wanting physical contact with him...yet I want...
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    Female, 42, mother, AVR scheduled for 11/4 Seeking likewise for discussions/support

    I have my counseling appointment set for this Thursday with two additional follow up sessions I can take advantage of prior to my surgery. I am hoping just talking to someone about everything; surgery, marriage, motherhood, work, that I can get to a point where I am happy. I am having a good day...
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    Female, 42, mother, AVR scheduled for 11/4 Seeking likewise for discussions/support

    Thank you for the words of support and advise...I am going to see a counselor prior to my surgery, and after, to work through some of my thoughts/feelings...calling today to set that up. Thank you for sharing your story with me. I will keep moving forward and look for the rainbow I know must be...
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    Female, 42, mother, AVR scheduled for 11/4 Seeking likewise for discussions/support

    Thank you Freddie, I do realize everyone here on the boards are a great resource of information and support. I just wanted to connect with other mothers, and women. I need some girl talk. But OK, here goes... I have been uhappy in my marrage for the last 5 years at least, maybe more. I love my...
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    Female, 42, mother, AVR scheduled for 11/4 Seeking likewise for discussions/support

    Looking for some other females to talk to about life and upcomming surgery. So many things are going on and I feel like I can't talk to anyone about what I am feeling. You?
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    Ladies: Has Coumadin effected your menstral flow?

    Thank you for your reply..yup I'm done having kids I have two boys 6 & 9. From the posts I have recieved from ladies so far your guess is right..thinner but longer periods with shorter cycles. Thank you for the well wishes!
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