kevans1475
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Hi all,
Gulp. 55 yo male and I've been having annual echos since 2017 to monitor by BAV, the stenosis kind. In November of 2022 I was at moderate and as of November 2023 I'm at severe. Talk about non-linear! Anyway, after meeting with my cardiologist and thoracic surgeon last week sealed the deal...it's time. I guess denial isn't just a river in Egypt! I've just started reading some posts here and boy, I'm glad I found this forum. Many questions are being answered, so thanks to you all who have already paid if forward. I'm grateful and will do my best to do the same.
I don't have a time and date yet as the surgeon said it's up to me. But certainly within months, not years. Rats. Are you SURE? Yep.
So now I need to get on my mental game. Physically I can walk/hike and experience some discomfort on inclines. I slow down or stop for a bit and I'm okay again. I've been experiencing some breastbone 'pressure' while at rest, but that comes and goes and I'm not sure the line between unconscious anxiety or progressing symptoms. Psychosomatics at work?? Of course I'm keeping my docs informed, but it's funny how everything seems to become a worsening symptom the moment you find out you need to go under the knife.
So for now I'm planning out a time and date and trying to keep my brain from running amok with worse case scenarios of symptoms. My surgeon said although I'm in the worst case of needing surgery soon, I'm a best case candidate since I've been monitoring it. I've heard many times the anticipation is worse than the operation. And mileage varies on recovery. I'll continue to monitor this site for advice on how to prep for the surgery (nutrition, exercise) and some best experiences for a safe and quality recovery (nutrition, activity).
Final question for now: is getting a second opinion from another cardiologist or surgeon a must-have? I'm going to Mass General in Boston and they have done so many of these they could install a drive through window. ;-) But for now I think I'm more concerned with my health leading up to the surgery than I'm worried about the post.
Any advice welcome! Thanks,
Ken
Gulp. 55 yo male and I've been having annual echos since 2017 to monitor by BAV, the stenosis kind. In November of 2022 I was at moderate and as of November 2023 I'm at severe. Talk about non-linear! Anyway, after meeting with my cardiologist and thoracic surgeon last week sealed the deal...it's time. I guess denial isn't just a river in Egypt! I've just started reading some posts here and boy, I'm glad I found this forum. Many questions are being answered, so thanks to you all who have already paid if forward. I'm grateful and will do my best to do the same.
I don't have a time and date yet as the surgeon said it's up to me. But certainly within months, not years. Rats. Are you SURE? Yep.
So now I need to get on my mental game. Physically I can walk/hike and experience some discomfort on inclines. I slow down or stop for a bit and I'm okay again. I've been experiencing some breastbone 'pressure' while at rest, but that comes and goes and I'm not sure the line between unconscious anxiety or progressing symptoms. Psychosomatics at work?? Of course I'm keeping my docs informed, but it's funny how everything seems to become a worsening symptom the moment you find out you need to go under the knife.
So for now I'm planning out a time and date and trying to keep my brain from running amok with worse case scenarios of symptoms. My surgeon said although I'm in the worst case of needing surgery soon, I'm a best case candidate since I've been monitoring it. I've heard many times the anticipation is worse than the operation. And mileage varies on recovery. I'll continue to monitor this site for advice on how to prep for the surgery (nutrition, exercise) and some best experiences for a safe and quality recovery (nutrition, activity).
Final question for now: is getting a second opinion from another cardiologist or surgeon a must-have? I'm going to Mass General in Boston and they have done so many of these they could install a drive through window. ;-) But for now I think I'm more concerned with my health leading up to the surgery than I'm worried about the post.
Any advice welcome! Thanks,
Ken