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Ross

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I started writing a big long schpeel to post and decided it just wasn't me and that I needed to do it from the hip. I guess with the passing of Debora and placing her in the Loving Memory Forum this morning, it really hit home just how fortunate that I really am. Many times now, it could well have been me having my obit posted.

I'm thankful to God for allowing me to continue on this earth regardless of my disabilities.

I'm thankful for family, even if it's only direct. Family is family and being alone and lonely isn't something I could take. I'm also thankful that all members seem to be in good health and pray that it remains that way for years to come.

I'm thankful for having met Hank and creating a friendship with him. He may not think so, but he's my guardian angel. In the few times of crisis that I've had since becoming a member here, he has been instrumental in being the ombudsman, motivator, rallying agent marshaling the troops, and the list goes on and on. He is a true friend that I'm blessed very highly to have met.

I'm thankful for this site and all of it's members. Without all of you, I seriously wouldn't be here today. A few of you of gone above and beyond for me. You know who you are and how very much it's appreciated. There has been what, 3 or 4 times now that I could have been the obit being posted, most recently back in October, but because of your love, help and support, and friendship, I've come through all of it. Some of you are also considered my guardian angels. I apologize to Mary for falling apart on the phone with her after my teeth removal surgery. It never hit me so strong as when I told her that the surgeons said that one more week with those infections and I might very well not have made it. Something has moved each of you to do the things you do and for that, I'm very thankful.

There are many many more things that I could write about, but these few, I certainly want all of you to know before my time does come. It will in it's own good time and whenever that is, I hope I'm ready. I don't know. Guess I just want you all to know how I feel about things and life.

What about you?
 
Ross.....nice, sincere post and very much "from the heart". You are a sweetie. :)
I'm also thankful to just be here, alive and breathing. I would prefer to have more strength and be out and about doing tons of stuff, but it ain't gonna happen. That's okay, I'm accepting of what I do have, and am thankful for it.
 
I'm thankful for the very breath in my body, riding a bike at the Y, sunshine, jogging up my stairs inside our home without even realizing I'm doing it! My kids - they're the stars in my crown if I have one! They make every day and every challenge simply worth it.

Our diocese here in Arlington just lost a wonderful priest - Fr Mike Kelly - yesterday morning, 12/31/08, on his way to do another priest's funeral Mass, he stopped to remove a large llimb in the roadway up in Maryland, someone stopped to help him, and another tree fell on him and killed him. I met him once but his smile and warmth and humanity are memorable.

Life is precious. Every minute counts. Our paths along this cardiac journey can be tedious and frightening at worst, but, at best, we learn who our friends are, we grab every instant we can that's good and true, and we understand what it's all about.

Gravy - I just got a new Honda Fit Sport - "Tidewater Blue," but I call it periwinkle purple, it's awesome and fun and just the sight of it makes me laugh. My better half told me I deserved it. :cool:
 
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Thank you Ross for this wonderful post!
I myself am thankful to be alive and for the doctors who saved my life. I'm very thankful for my two adult children and for my beautiful granddaughters. I'm thankful for this website that provides many people the comfort they seek in so many ways. I am thankful that I was born in our wonderful USA. There are so many things I'm thankful for that it's hard to think of all of them and list them all.
So thanks to you and everyone here and for all the future people who will join this site.
Happy New Year and many more to everyone!
Viki
 
Plain and simple..........I'm thankful for what this site and Ross (and a few others ;)) have done for me. I truly believe I wouldn't be here.
It was here where I found some kind of love and support when I couldn't find it anywhere else.
Thank-you everyone for putting a smile upon my face and putting up with me with all my trials and tribulations.
 
I am thankful for still being on this earth and all it entails, provides and allows, especially all my loved ones both near and far (and that includes my VR.com family).
 
I'm thankful for everything. Even when circumstances are awful in my life, I still have it better than many, many people in this world.
 
What a sincere touching heartfelt post, Ross. May 2009 bring us better health to those who need it, and keep those who are healthy enjoying their health.

I am grateful for every person who appeared in my life and had left an impact in a way or another...I am thankful for all the sorrow and grief I went through as it helped me mature faster and appreciate life more...I am thankful for all the happiness God bestowed on me as it sure helped me overcome previous sorrows and griefs...I am thankful and grateful to my hubby who proposed to me despite my warning that I would need this surgery one day and his answer was that he wanted to be beside me instead of me dealing with it on my own...he is my sweet angel, as I could not have dealth with it alone...grateful to have a beautiful step son who is blossoming into a real young gentleman...and thankful for all my family and friends and lastly but not least, I am thankful and grateful for all the members of this wonderful heavenly blessed website and grateful and thankful to Hank for starting it. May God reward you and bless you, Hank, and bless you Ross and all members of this site whom I consider as an extended family.

Again and again thankful to God for granting me a new lease on life, and thankful to all the surgeons and doctors who are faithful to their patients.

Happy New Year to all of you :)
 
Thank you for your heartfelt post Ross...you are a beautiful soul.

I'm thankful to God...and for His precious gifts to me...Chris my husband who is (and always will be) the love of my life, and for our 3 beautiful babes, Noah, Sienna & Heidi.

Also, for family and friends...and for the people such as VR.com members, who significantly impact and give of their time helping and supporting others.

Hugs,
Yolanda
 
WOW ROSS WHAT A BEAUTIFUL POST YOU BEEN MAKING US CRY ALOT LATELY HERE:p:D:)

I am too thank-ful for my beautiful family-Kids

Thankful for wonderful,supportive hubby whos been here for me

thick and thin.I'm thank-ful for my parents and their health yet.

My wonderful freinds on this board....you all have been a true

inspiration to me,my relationship with God.

Last but not least Hank and Ross for keeping this site up

and running to all for keeping a peaceful site.......YOU ALL ROCK:)

(HUGS )

zipper2 (DEB)
 
Hey, I made it to the big 6 - 0 with a bicuspid valve and an aneurysm...thankful I'm still here...and I have a great partner...and I have caring friends....and I have VR...and I have Martinis...what more could a guy ask for?

Jim

Jim when I think of mine blowing apart at about 4.7 then hearing of others walking around with things as large as 6.0, all I can do is shake my head and say, "Man your lucky".
 
I try to thank God every night for my health and pray for everyone here and family and friends. Without the above, I would have been lost. I am extremely grateful the valve was replaced and I woke up. I also have a brain tumor. (benign, thank God ) I am REALLY thankful for it being benign. Had one big blast of radiation for that "bad boy". (hope it shrinks). I am so glad I found this web site. I think since I have been here, I have had every emotion. Some posts make you laugh, cry, sad, happy, angry and yes, darned grateful! So Hank, Ross............THANK YOU! May 2009 be a good year for all of us.
 
Ross, thank you for that beautiful post. I have soo much to be thankful for, my family, hubby, daughter (to be married 2010), my church, the vr forum family, and life. I feel so blessed to even be here, for whatever reasons God has given me that opportunity hopefully to touch others with the love he has shown me. What a great post to start off the New Year. I count it a privilege to be part of this forum and its wonderful people.
God Bless you all,
Crystal:)
 
I wanted to give some thought to this. There's so much I have to be grateful for. It seems like most of the blessings in my life have come from struggles, either mine or someone I know. My biggest blessings, my husband, children, daughter-in-law and grandchild, would not be in my life if my parents had not had the struggle of raising a severely mentally disabled child. I would never have met my husband if I did not have the brother I have. His life has placed so many wonderful people in my path. Of all the people in my life, he is the single biggest reason I'm so richly blessed.

My biggest personal struggle, my years of struggling with my valve and arrhythmia issues, has blessed me in so many ways I can't begin to list them all. Just know that VR and the wonderful relationships here are a big part of it. Ross - you are my brother from another mother!

All I can say to sum it up is "Praise God from whom all blessings flow." May you all be richly blessed in 2009.

And here's my brother and I on Christmas Day (and a few lyrics from a song I wrote about him)
"He's a funny, little man
People sometimes stare,
Big thick glasses on his nose
And very little hair
His feet turn inward as he walks
Stands shorter than most men
Sounds funny when you hear him talk,
But he's part of a bigger plan"
 
I'm thankful for my husband, my children, grandchildren, family, friends, my VR family, the doctors who have treated and operated on me, my St. Jude valve lasting for so long, the ability to live life to the fullest because of all the cardiac accomplishments that have been made and are yet to come, waking up each morning and experiencing life each day and most of all, my Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. LINDA
 
I am in tears reading Ross' and everybody's posts. We are all a special group of people. I am thankful for having this online community and I hope that I may have helped some people by my posts. I am thankful for my partner, my entire family, and I am grateful for each and every day the sun shines in my room in the morning and I have the energy and spirit to love the people in my life and appreciate nature and the beauty that surrounds us every day. I am grateful for regaining my athletic abilties and can engage in the workout schedule I did before my surgery. I am grateful for the ticking I hear in my chest before I go to sleep. I am grateful for my friends and co workers who are like family. I take nothing for granted.
Wishing all of you a healthy and happy 2009...
Allan
 
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