Yes that’s it thank you! The cardiologist also mentioned some people go for the tissue valve initially and then mechanical one later on, but I’m not sure I want to go through this surgery again!
Hi Zara.
I think that planning to go tissue on the first procedure and then mechanical on #2 is not a bad plan, if you desire to have children. You will still be young for #2 and most young people do fine on #2, although it is a little higher risk, due to scar tissue. Going mechanical for #2 would probably mean that this would be your last. The statistics would suggest that you would probably need this reop at about age 43 to 47.
But, as Lisa's story suggests, sometimes planning for 2 leads to 3 surgeries, with unforseen complications or events, such as endocarditis or the discovery of a new aneurysm years later. Of course, planning for 1 surgery, in going mechanical, you still could face these same events down road, which lead to another procedure. But, at least that way, you plan for 1 surgery, and if some unforseen event happens down road, perhaps your 2nd will be your last. So, there is the argument to plan for as few procedures as possible, because life does throw us curveballs and it is not uncommon for people to end up with one more surgery than they planned.
Not an easy choice and desiring to have children does complicate things.
I wonder if anyone has had the minimally invasive surgery recently? I was leaning towards this due to a shorter recovery period but need to discuss it with the surgeon in a few weeks.
Yes, I had a mini-sternotomy a couple years back, in which only the top 3.5 inches of my sternum was cut, instead of the full sternotomy. Quicker recovery, but in the big picture, I'm not sure getting back to things a few weeks earlier is worth the trade off. Many here will point out that having the full sternotomy gives the surgeon better access in case there is a complication, and I think that there is merit to that argument. If I had to do it over again, personally I'm not sure that I would advocate for a mini again, although mine went very well.
I wouldn’t rule out adoption if that didn’t work out, so it’s something to think about.
My wife had complications after her third pregnancy, which left her unable to have any more children. We wanted one more and so we adopted. It was a great decision for us and would be an option for you if you choose mechanical and decide to avoid the complications of pregnancy while on warfarin.
Best of luck with your decision.