Donna - I know how hurt and worried you must be. You don't have to keep up with the news because it is so painful. But there are those of us who do keep up and we can speak and write letters to the powers that be and tell you that we do so that you know there are voices out here for you and your child. You can write your senator to urge him/her to be sure to see that our children have all the equipment that they need over there - like brand new helicopters, body armor, and protection on their vehicles. We, as families, can do nothing to help, but that, and it gives us a bit of hope that we are doing something for our children. Besides that, prayer vigils help us to cope. I cannot even imagine what you must be going through - I am a mother, like you, our children are in trouble and nothing we can do about it except wait. Bless you. Bless you all.