NaddieTea
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help me understand
Nattie Tea - I am your grandma's age and had aortic valve replacement three weeks ago. I am still in the hospital, though not on oxygen; I am at times short of breath and short of energy and sometimes find myself crying at "nothing". And yet my progress is considered normal. I am also taking water pills and rejoice at the loss of two-tenths of a pound since yesterday. I too want to be in my own home, but realize that I am safe and medically cared for here. Be careful that your anxiety isn't affecting your grandma.If you can visit for short periods daily, bringing her little surprises to keep her spirits up, her depression should lift somewhat. Each of us heals at our own speed. Like your grandma, I was sick for some time prior to diagnosis and surgery so am started my recovery from a lower level than someone who was not as ill at surgery.
Try to keep your own spirits up and you'll be a help in her recovery. Good thoughts coming your way.
Catherine
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