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My murmur started at 19, mild regurgitation started at 30, severe regurgitation at around 40!
I had my surgery at 57, 16 years after my regurgitation became severe. I wish I had it earlier by four years when my fatigue was severe and quality of life deteriorating, yet cardio cared for the echo numbers instead of listening to my symptoms!
I also wish I had the surgery before the aortic regurgitation affected the functioning of my Mitral valve, thus I ended up with two mechanical valves! So, make sure to ask your cardio next time if your regurgitation will affect functioning of other valves (as in my case).
Re Tom in Mo’s response, I’m not sure now what my ve type is: tricuspid or bicuspid!