Allisoninoz
Well-known member
Ok, I'm coming to terms with the fact I'm having OHS on February 22 so my aortic valve can be replaced and my clever surgeon can do something about the very recently discovered fact that I'm missing my right coronary artery.
I'm calmer than I was a week ago so that's a good sign. Although I think about it A LOT I'm not teary all the time now. And I'm telling people as I see them and am buoyed by the number of people who offer to help.
I'm not trying to be negative, but I am wondering about the types of serious - or not so serious - decisions/actions others made before surgery? Yes, the big ones. Did you write letters to loved ones? Did you ensure your will was right? Did you make any documents regarding what should be done in case of brain-death etc?
And if you did make some of those decisions, did it make you feel better or worse pre-surgery?
Thanks...
I'm calmer than I was a week ago so that's a good sign. Although I think about it A LOT I'm not teary all the time now. And I'm telling people as I see them and am buoyed by the number of people who offer to help.
I'm not trying to be negative, but I am wondering about the types of serious - or not so serious - decisions/actions others made before surgery? Yes, the big ones. Did you write letters to loved ones? Did you ensure your will was right? Did you make any documents regarding what should be done in case of brain-death etc?
And if you did make some of those decisions, did it make you feel better or worse pre-surgery?
Thanks...