For what it's worth: I've been on VR a long time, and I have read some incredible stories. The relevant word as it pertains to this thread is INCREDIBLE. We had one who convinced the group that she committed suicide, and others who have run scams for money. They're usually not obvious when they first start out, but they gradually work themselves into the fabric of the community and then do their damage. I'm not saying that anyone is trying to do so now, but healthy skepticism can be a virtue.