I was a bit confused by Joe's last post on his thread. No one here is telling anyone not to drink. I drink! (And I used to do the other that Cooker brought up - but that was back in college and we won't go there.
) If you've ever been to a VR reunion - you'll know that this is a group of people that like their adult beverages with a social evening!
I'm thrilled to pieces that the the new OTC Zyrtec has taken care of my wine allergy and I can now, once again, enjoy a lovely glass of red in the evening.
Moderation (and not just because we're valve people) is the key. No reponsible person is going to tell someone here that it's okay to get wasted while on Coumadin. But it's the opinion of many here that it's not the wise thing to do anyway regardless of Coumadin.
There are some of us who have crossed the sobriety line unintentionally on occasion - and that's going to happen. But setting out for the specific purpose is like someone who's lost their leg in a car accident, that was able to have it reattached and then takes up the hobby of wading through a tank of alligators. Sooner or later that leg is gonna come off again.
Our friend that just had an AVR said he was roomates with a 28 year old man who just had his 2 year-old tissue valve replaced. They shared the same surgeon and when my friend asked his surgeon why the "kid's" valve didn't last he said all the doctor would say was "He wasn't living a life that respected the valve."
So all we're saying is "Live a life that respects your valve." (whether is comes in a glass or rolled in a paper - Cooker.
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