Recent content by 2hartsas1

Hello everyone. It's been a year now since my Victor left here onto a greater journey. I miss him and just wanted to stop in and say hello. Hope eveyone is well. It's all such a difficult decision to make. I can't help but wonder-would he have still been here with me had he chosen to have the...

:) I am going to stick around here now, if it's all the same .....I have been redirected by my darling grandkids and my daughter...but they are back to their lives now, and I-back to mine. It's coming up on the date my Victor passed and well..... I would like very much (thanks Ross and all for...

To All To All My Victor would have been 65 today. He was looking forward to it, but not to the oncoming of medi-etc...I miss him. 2hartsas1...always

hi Evelyn, Thank you for your support. i am staying. I cant remember, but if havent, please do light a candle on Victors site, and/or sign condolence. Ross posted the site link in the memorial section here. Thank you.

Mileena Mileena thank you. and thank you for posting on Victors site. i feel he is at peace. I am working on it. little at a time.

Kathy Kathy thank you for your kindness. Much appreciated. and I will be around. The people here mean too much to me. I never should have left in the first place.

All All Just want to let you all know how much I appreciate you going to check in on my Victor. Those who knew us ....well you know how much he meant-means to me. Those who didnt know us-well, I guess by now you know anyway. It's been six months....hard to believe. I will always be-...

Praline Praline Thank you so much. I went to see ...thank you for the candle and the words as well. I cant tell you how much I appreciate it. ((((((Praline))))))

Ann Ann :( Ann thank you so much. I havent told anyone but Victors family is/was about as useless as fly poo during everything. maybe they had ahd it but they just abandoned us both. I wont go into details but suffice to say they were like the family from hell. you all here have been the best...

Hi Ann Hi Ann Good to see you. Yes, I expect what you say is right. Who'd uh thunk it huh. :D Victor knew what he was doing. Deep down- I knew he was right...but I sure never wanted to accept it. Like I told Ross, I jsut wanted him to live forever is all. Not much to ask a fella. I sure do...

thank you cooker ~shirley (aka-'2hartsas1')

Thank you Nancy, feel free to light a candle for Victor on the site if you like. That goes for anyone at all. he was precious. and my hero. I miss him.:( I will be around. Thank you for asking. It's hard for me to believe its been 6mos already since he has been gone....strange. So glad I...

Hi Praline, yes I do remember you honey. So Sorry for your loss. Yes such decisions are individual and persnal. just always so hard for those of us on the close 'sidelines';) please feel free to light a candle for Victor on the site I made, which Ross posted for me on the memories forum. Take...

(((Ross)))) (((Ross)))) ;)That is exactly how he saw things honey. and he was on oxegyn in the end. you know what- I got 5 more years with my sweetheart that the dox always said would never be. I consider myself lucky.:) 8 years altogether. Well, short 3 mos. I loved that man so much. He was a...

Nancy Nancy Thank you Nancy. I hope I do. I just really miss him. You know how that is. I was chief cook and bottle washer here....now I am the last little Indian. :) check the weblink I posted on my reply to Ross. Its really good to talk with you all again. ~shirley