Harmony........
I read the long list of things to bring to the hospital before I went for my second OHS in February. I had my first four years prior and arrived at Mass General in an ambulance. I had almost nothing with me, of course, and did fine. My DH would have brought anything I needed or wanted. I needed almost nothing.
This is honest to goodness list of the things I brought for my second and I used most of it. There was nothing else I had any use for and I had people to bring for me if I wanted.
I needed:
toothpaste and brush
hairbrush
deoderant
reading glasses
chapstick
cellphone and charger
slippers
pencil/pen/paper to jot down questions for doctor etc
I stuck some cash in pocket of my coat/zipper pocket of my small duffel/pocket of slacks I wore to the hospital. ($10 here and there. I never used it as I didn't care about having TV. That would have been the only thing to need cash for in my case.) Some people say hairdresser and/or massage therapist was availabe on their floor if they wished and they had to pay cash. I didn't need or want those services.
I brought a paperback book but could never concentrate and never wore the robe I brought.
The hospital will provide you with everything you need.
Wear the hospital gown as it has pocket in which to put the monitor. Wear a second gown backwards if necessary as a robe. Mass General had 'johnny robes'.
If you wish to bring your pocketbook, it can be locked up by the nurses while you are in surgery, ICU and unable to have it safely with you. Do not bring valuables. They are almost guaranteed to disappear accidentally.
Hope this helps. I'm a middle aged woman and am used to lugging my big pocket book and need all my 'things' with me. I never learned to travel light. You won't need that 'stuff' in the hospital.
Choose carefully what you wear to the hospital as that is what you wear home. Wear loose slacks/jeans and top that is easy on/off. I was not able to wear my normal underwire bra after both my surgeries. I was SO grateful I found Barely There Microfiber seamless Crop tops to wear as bras. They are lightweight, stretchy, no hooks and pull on and off with no reaching/stretching. They gave support comfortably and I wore it home from the hospital very comfortably. If you are all 'endowed' they suggest wearing support so weight does not pull on your incision while it is healing. You can find them at
www.onehanesplace.com. Item No. 898NP and cost $7.49 ea. This company is dependable and I have ordered from them a number of times....various merchandise. This may not be helpful for you, Harmony, but maybe someone else with a sternal incision. I don't know how your regular bra will feel over a side incision. I think this stretchy, soft, lightweight might be good for you, as well.