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Lisa in Katy

I think I posted about going to Virginia in November to celebrate my grandmother's 100th birthday. She had been living in a nursing home for about four years, and doing as well as could be expected for a blind and deaf (without her hearing aids) century old person. Her mind wasn't always in the present, she had severe osteoporosis which put her in a wheelchair, and she weighed almost nothing. Well several weeks ago she refused to eat for a few days and the doctor said to expect the end. She rallied and did okay for about a week. Then she did it again, and again rallied. The third time happened last week and on Saturday she passed away at the age of 100 years, 4 months, and 3 days. She outlived her husband by 42 years. I'm sad, but at 100, you know to expect it. In fact, right before she went into the nursing home, we all went to Virginia to visit because the doctor felt like it was a matter of time. Well the "matter of time" turned into almost 4 years!

We will be going to Louisiana on Sunday for the Monday graveside service. It's taking a while because she wanted to be cremated prior to the transport from Virginia to Louisiana to minimize costs. She grew up in a large working class family and was a young married woman during the Depression, so always knew the value of a penny! She was the 3rd from oldest and the oldest girl of 10 children. One brother died in WWII. The other 5 brothers all fought and made it home. Nine of the ten lived at least into their 70's and most got close to 90. My grandmother made it the longest. The youngest sister turned 90 in August and is now the last one.

Pray for my family. Even though it was expected, my mom is taking it kind of hard.
 
May God Bless You All and bring you peace. Savor all the fond memories you have of her and remember you will see her again. Give your mom a hug cause no matter how prepared we think we are, it still hurts like heck when our mommy leaves us.:)
 
Thinking of you all as you gather to celebrate your Grandmother's life.
 
A century of life! Wow! Lisa, when you love someone, no matter how old she is nor how much it seems it is "time to go", there is still sorrow at the parting. God bless you. I bet she loved you a lot.
 
Lisa ... you and your entire family have our sympathy and prayers ... 100 years old .... my, the sights and changes she saw in her life ... a sad time but also a life to be celebrated .....

Regards,
Tom
 
Lisa:

Even though your grandmother had a very long life, it's still hard for your family to lose her. I'm so sorry that she has passed on.

One of my grandmothers died at 99 years 5 months -- outliving my grandfather by 56 years. You just expect them to live forever sometimes...

Please pass along my condolences to your extended family.
 
Lisa,sad to hear this. I know at this age we can't expect much more,but
we always want 'one more day' for someone we love. I have a 96 year old
great-grand(I'm not much younger than you,our family marries young) and
so I can relate to this aspect. I'm sorry for your loss,but know that you have
many treasures of memories of her -Dina
 
Lisa, My sincere condolences to you and your family. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. It really is remarkable when one lives to 100! You will always have your memories of her and I'm sure the stories she told you about growing up. She definitely saw a lot of changes. May God Bless you and your family.
 
100 years is nothing to sneeze at. I just imagine the things she could tell me. Certainly have my prayers and condolences. Doens't matter how long one has been around, it still hurts when they leave us.
 
My condolences go out to you & your family during this time. I can understand the sadness your mom feels over the lose of her mom because no matter how old they are or how prepared you think you are when your parents pass, it's still very hard & sad when they leave. :(
 
Heaven received another angel. 100 years, amazing! Hugs & prayers are coming your way for you and your family.
 
You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. No matter what the age, it's still hard to lose a loved one. My grandmother lived to 95. She was also in a nursing home. Her short term memory was gone but she could still tell me exactly how to bake a cake and the exact ingredients she would use. The things your grandmother must have experienced over a century! Amazing! LINDA
 

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